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Thread: Is this her reaction to a confident male?

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    Lightbulb Is this her reaction to a confident male?

    It has happened to me many times whenever I am out
    Here it is:
    I meet with a certain group of people every week- different day, a different group, so there are women I see weekly. Well when i am displaying this attitude of Alpha and keeping in mind that I am one who is valuable, I respond to women's question with a slow pace, and calm demeanor. I give them the eye contact I need to deliver my sentence then continue enjoying my surroundings or doing what I was doing, smoking a cigarette,sitting down on my phone, etc. They always ask is there something wrong? The Vibe is always the same, and they always ask shallow questions so it's reasonable for me to answer very patiently. I think it may be due to them not getting attraction and subconsciously testing me by asking me that. I say no I am fine because I am..its as if they don't understand what it is to take things slow.
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    Default Re: Is this her reaction to a confident male?

    If women are asking you if there is something wrong, It is usually because they feel something about the way you're acting is not quite right. I would not assume that you are being "too sexy" for them. I would use the opportunity to ask them what they mean and see if there is a common thread. This could be a chance to become even more calibrated in your interactions.

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    Default Re: Is this her reaction to a confident male?

    That's true, I do spend too much time in my head thinking I am telepathically turning her on when I'm not paying very much attention to giving her good feelings. Laugh, Kino, etc.

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    Default Re: Is this her reaction to a confident male?

    TomInVegas is right,

    Trying to be alpha is not alpha, it is insecure. Worrying about if you are coming across as alpha is generally going to be extremely unhelpful to your game. The obsession with being alpha is one of my biggest complaints about the community.

    You will be better off making sure you are connecting with the girl and having fun doing it, in a non needy way, which conveys that you have other options if she does not like you.
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