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    Default Approach the girl out to eat

    I was just in a little food joint with a couple friends when a 9 walked in with her friends. I wanted to approach but felt that trying to converse while they're trying to eat didn't seem like a good idea.

    My question is, how would one approach the 3 set to get a number while they're out to eat without looking like a creep or bothering them?

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    Default Re: Approach the girl out to eat

    Wait for them to grab something to eat and on their way out open the set with an opinion opener..make sure you open the whole group not just her and throw in a false time constraint with body rocking ofcourse to look genuine..get into few attraction routines, Number Close her saying something like..'what a great conversation we just had here but unfortunately I should get going..I think me and your friend here(target) kinda like each other, can I borrow her for a sec?' number close her and bring her back

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    Default Re: Approach the girl out to eat

    Quote Originally Posted by genuineheckel View Post
    I was just in a little food joint with a couple friends when a 9 walked in with her friends. I wanted to approach but felt that trying to converse while they're trying to eat didn't seem like a good idea.

    My question is, how would one approach the 3 set to get a number while they're out to eat without looking like a creep or bothering them?
    Take a look at what's going on in the area. A compliment or observation is ideal. If you can't think of anything else, going direct is a good last resort.

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    Default Re: Approach the girl out to eat

    Look for ioi's. When I was out to eat at Red Robin a HB9 was checking me at the door when I walked in when she was sitting with her BF. We sat down to eat and she got up talking to her group facing me in the other direction now (2nd IOI). Finally she got rid of the BF and sat there by herself and would NOT stop staring which was a huge invite to come over (3rd IOI) as her and her BF should have left together (Who the heck doesn't leave with their date and just sits there alone staring at someone?). All in all I failed (aa/never approached). But you should go over and talk to them. I once got hit on in my early 20's "You scurred?" by a hot girl and the truth was I was. I was very skinny at the time so I didn't feel entitled to hot chicks. But now that I am at 175lbs I feel more confident to go over and talk to them however I recommend being non-chalant as I feel indirect would be better and to try to somehow create a fun vibe. When girls are having fun you usually have more fun yourself therefore giving you a higher close rate. But it's hard to approach strangers so try not to sit down with them unless they invite you since that would be creepy and make very light short length conversation. A time constraint would be key since you don't want to be a lingerer. But all in all be confident since there is no other way to win with these girls and if you are confident regardless of the situation you will be feeling good even if you failed at least you were confident enough to approach a HB9 in a very awkward scenario. Try not to overthink it just make it like you do this all the time as experience breeds success and if you seem like a natural you will get farther. Fake it till you make it, success brings more success.
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    Default Re: Approach the girl out to eat

    I diasagree with looking for ioi's. they are distracting and real guys dont care about them or need them. just go talk to her


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