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Thread: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

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    Default Re: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

    Alright you can try to get her to be interested in you..... But at the end of the day she won't be really attracted to you even if she comes around, don't waste your time you're not on earth to make people like you. Invest in the people that do find you attractive and not one girl out of the rest of the other girls in the world that could be looking for a guy like you... Move on
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    Default Re: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

    Being that this is at work situation you have lots of red tape that could become messy in a lawsuit if you aren't careful it will take a bit more time and some artful uses of tactics for this one to propagate. But it is only impossible if you believe it to be so. I don't think I'd phrase it as making someone like you either, that isn't possible because we cannot control free will. However, I would just put it as you are looking for the way to best present yourself to her. Preferably in a way that she becomes attracted to who you are.

    So I agree on that point don't waste time trying to make people like you, rather figure out how to best present yourself in a way that is favorable to the company that you seek.

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    Default Re: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

    Sometimes low level of interest even though there was initial attraction may lead to such issues.etc.
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    Default Re: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

    Quote Originally Posted by RegalSP View Post
    There's this girl at my job that's extremely beautiful, I'm pretty positive I've never seen another girl like her in my life. She can wear minimal amounts of makeup and still look amazing. I'm so infatuated with her that I can't think straight pretty much everyday because I'm just not sure why she doesn't seem interested in me at all... In my opinion I'm a daily attractive black guy, I hit the gym almost everyday and other girls a work notice my progress and joking refer to me as their boyfriend. This has been the case for me the majority of my life, it's always the girls I don't want any sort of relationship at all
    That get attached to me and the ones I want more then anything in the world play with my emotions or show no interest. If I had a chance I would spend everything or do anything to please this girl I can't stop thinking about though (Marina). I need help
    Before I go crazy, I've told her how beautiful she was and said flirtatious remarks trying to eat rise out of her but she just laughs it off. She told me she isn't the type of girl who likes commitment after me prying for some information casually which leads me to believe she's experienced something that has shifted her though process I'm this direction. Although I've encountered girls like this before, is it possible for me to change her thought process? I'm willing to do anything to make it work out... I just want her to want me.
    No matter what you are trying to do, first thing is first. You have to sleep with her. After that, focus on defining the relationship. If sex is REALLY good for her, even better. Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: Marina - I am infatuated... how to make it work?

    Quote Originally Posted by RegalSP View Post
    If I had a chance I would spend everything or do anything to please this girl I can't stop thinking about though (Marina). I need help Before I go crazy,
    //// You are not running game on her because you are completely an open book. She knows that you would do anything for her, so she has already "got you". You have not given her anything to chase. You are not a prize to be won over, in her mind. ////

    I've told her how beautiful she was and said flirtatious remarks trying to eat rise out of her but she just laughs it off.
    //// You have given her all of your power by doing this. It is now hard for her to respect you or take you seriously. ////

    I'm willing to do anything to make it work out... I just want her to want me.
    //// This is extremely needy and unattractive. Even though we have all been in this place and felt this pain, it will never win a girl over. Sorry Bro. ////
    I have put some pretty tough love feedback in the //// backslashes //// above. This is not meant to be mean, but rather as a wake-up call for you. I like that you are social with other women and that they appreciate it. The approach you have taken with this woman will never get you the results that you want.

    I would highly recommend that you back way off this woman and start treating her in a strictly professional way. For one, you could seriously be putting your job in jeopardy with your actions and she could file charges of sexual harassment. Also, you have put yourself in such a bad spot, that recovery is not likely. Backing off completely, forgetting about her and focusing on other woman is the Very Best thing that you can do. It is also the only shot you have for getting better with women.

    You will actually need to forget that you are attracted to her and just do your job. When you go out at night, pour all of that desire and passion into meeting new women. It will be the best thing you have ever done for yourself.

    You should not do this as a sneaky way to try and win her back. She is over and you need to just move on.

    I really appreciate your passion and desire to get better at this. Keep the goal in mind that you want to become the best man you can be so that women like this will flock to you.

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