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    Default How to approach a hot girl or a group of hot girls

    Hi.

    How do I approach or open a hot girl or two hot girls at a swimming pool?

    I often see a girl or two girls by the pool sun bathing or chatting. I would like to approach them when there is an opening, but I cannot think of something good to say.

    For instance, recently there were two girls just playing around. They were giving me ioi's like stealing glances at me. There would have been plenty of opportunities but I couldn't think of how to open or what to do after.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: How to approach a hot girl or a group of hot girls

    Don't stress that much about the opener because from my perspective it is not the opener that is magical..It is the manner in which you say it..your body language and tone of your voice conveys 93% of your message..so next time think about something situational relevant like 'hey guys..Do you often come here?..I don't know this place much..I might need help adjusting' or you can use tons of opinion openers found on this site. Remember: Calibrate a body language that is superb..An opener relies heavily on it
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    Default Re: How to approach a hot girl or a group of hot girls

    Quote Originally Posted by Escriba Dei View Post
    Hi.

    How do I approach or open a hot girl or two hot girls at a swimming pool?

    I often see a girl or two girls by the pool sun bathing or chatting. I would like to approach them when there is an opening, but I cannot think of something good to say.

    For instance, recently there were two girls just playing around. They were giving me ioi's like stealing glances at me. There would have been plenty of opportunities but I couldn't think of how to open or what to do after.

    Any suggestions?
    Hey man. At end of the day, anything is better than nothing. Girls at pool are incredibly open to being talked to. I'd go up and compliment them on something or make an observation.

    I promote nightclubs in Las Vegas, and i have found girls at the pool are the easiest to talk to of anyone in the city. I always asked "Where are you all going tonight?" which is my standard opener when I'm promoting clubs, but half the time that alone turned into a regular conversation and they didn't even realize I was working.

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    Default Re: How to approach a hot girl or a group of hot girls

    Hi mate,

    To begin with I would say you are worrying too much. You have to accept that you might get blown out, and nobody can guaruntee you will succeed no matter how good your opener.

    If you do not know what to say, this is usually a decent one, "Hey guys, having a good time/day/night out"? Said with a confident tone, body language and a big smile this will open the set often. It really can be that easy. If you are tongue tied and can't think of anything better, just say this.

    If you run out of things to say and feel uncomfortable, just learn to stay in set anyway. I see a lot of guys walk out of sets when they can't think of what to say, and the girl is dismayed to see him leave because she actually likes him and he just cannot see it!

    Do this enough and you will learn to chill out and then be able to have more fun in set and your results will improve.

    If you can open with something situational that also has humour to it this is very powerful. Some guys think situational just means an observation, but an observation without humour is not normally anything like as good as one that uses wit. The reason for this is that if you make her smile with your opener, you are bringing value, and her first opinion of you is likely to be positive.

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