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Thread: tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

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    Default tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

    so ive asked this girl out twice now. all i know is she hasnt said "no" to me...yet least to say. she actually said "yes" to me when i asked her out both personally and on text. she said she "would" if she's not busy with school and work.

    so now, there's a hockey game coming up in a a couple of weeks. the reason for this is i know she's a big hockey fan of the team playing in town. i thought it'd be an awesome date to take her out on.

    but the thing is now im kinda anxious to bring the topic of going out on her again for i might seem desperate or pushy. but then again, i think i just need to be persistent on this one...?

    any thoughts and advices from you gents out there will be really helpful and appreciated!

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    Default Re: tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

    The ball is in your court bro..To really make yourself a hero and advance in your pick-up career this opportunity need not be missed..when you ask her out, don't make it a big deal or seem desperate..approach this from perspective that you can either take her or leave her..now I am not saying act ruthless..All i am saying is detach yourself from the outcome and trust me she will sense this..remember women are 10 times better in reading body language than men..Your body language must be non-needy
    Whether you think you can or you can't either way, you are right-To believe in the heroic makes heroes

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    Default Re: tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

    Quote Originally Posted by thaatguy18 View Post
    so ive asked this girl out twice now. all i know is she hasnt said "no" to me...yet least to say. she actually said "yes" to me when i asked her out both personally and on text. she said she "would" if she's not busy with school and work.

    so now, there's a hockey game coming up in a a couple of weeks. the reason for this is i know she's a big hockey fan of the team playing in town. i thought it'd be an awesome date to take her out on.

    but the thing is now im kinda anxious to bring the topic of going out on her again for i might seem desperate or pushy. but then again, i think i just need to be persistent on this one...?

    any thoughts and advices from you gents out there will be really helpful and appreciated!
    Have you checked her availability? If she gives you no opening, she's being polite but isn't interested. If you haven't checked her schedule and are just suggesting times to meet up, there is a good chance that she is legitimately busy during those times and can't make it.

    Does that make sense?

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    Default Re: tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

    Hi mate,

    Ask her almost as if the question is a statement rather than a question. I am talking about the TONE of how you say it rather than the words.....The words should be a question. Something like,

    "Hey, I'm going to that hockey game next week on friday at midnight, do you want to come",

    but with the tonality of a statement. This will seem stronger and make you seem less invested. excessive investment will give her too much validation and you do not want that, because relationships should be two way streets. You will not get "into her", unless she gets "into it", with you.

    In the meantime focus on improving yourself and working at your passions. This will increase your value. She should be seeing that you are not desperate and other girls like you.

    Hope this helps.
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    Default Re: tried asking her out twice now! STILL NOTHING. need some advice

    thank you so much, gents! all your advices are really helpful. i will for sure keep that in the back of my mind. it is very much appreciated!


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