Re: TheDuke’s Guide to Mixed Sets and Practical AMOGing
First off, it sounds like you're very bitter from your interactions with women. You won't be successful if you approach interactions from that perspective.
Second, of course this is just a theory, but a theory that is testable and verifiable. Moreover, it is based on solid research from other areas of science and game theory. I gave several books that you can read that support what I have said. I particularly implore you to read the Evolution of Cooperation, which is a study on game theory that provides an excellent basis for anyone looking to get ahead in life.
Third, I can understand why you'd believe aggression and violence solves problems. I imagine that your interactions throughout your life have been dominated by aggressive males. This suggests to me that you've shown a weakness and made yourself vulnerable to this kind of behavior.
Being a cooperator is the ultimate strategy. This is not just my "theory," but a position that has been verified through strenuous testing. However, you have misinterpreted what the cooperator is. For instance, you suggest that you could deal with a cooperator by violently approaching a woman and ignoring the cooperator, and in return the cooperator will just ignore you. But that's not how a cooperator would handle that situation. Like I said before:
A cooperator will cooperate until provoked.
In this case, ignoring you would be akin to cooperating. So let me tell you how I would handle this situation. I would simply take the girl by the hand and lead her somewhere else. This works well for me for two reasons: (1) I'm a big guy and most rational people aren't going to escalate with me physically, and (2) a guy who chooses to escalate physically is going to quickly lose all value because the bouncers and/or police are going to have his face pushed into the cement--ever try picking up a girl while choking on the floor with your hands cuffed? Basically, if a guy isn't going to cooperate with me, I'm not going to cooperate with him.
The difference between the cooperator and the other categories is that the cooperator is going to adapt his methodology to meet the factors of his surrounding environment.
Also, this "limiting belief" bullshit you're going on about is nonsense. My advice to you is to disregard the concept of limiting belief, not because it isn't true, but because most people don't understand it and you are no exception. Lots of people who want to pick up women will make statements like, "I'm fine the way I am, and it's my limiting beliefs that are causing my failures." They use this concept as a rationale for not changing and not growing. If I were you, I would approach things with this mentality: There are things that work, and there are things that don't work, and I will strive to find and internalize the things that do work.
Finally, if all the women you are hanging around are self-harming and prone to destructive behavior, then your not hanging around the right women/people/places. Take responsibility for yourself.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."