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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Surferdude, I'm in the same situation at work. There's a hot married woman who is constantly flirting with me. She texts me randomly after work and is always complimenting me on my clothes or looks. Some of it is just so obvious, it's silly. She sends me all the signals and my friends were telling me it's only a matter of time before something happens. If she weren't married, you would assume something would happen looking at it and I would have surely asked her out. I'm doing my part by never initiating any of the contact but now I'm thinking that she's just using this as an ego boost. Although, I'm sure if her husband knew about the flirting or texting, he wouldn't approve, she is more than likely just having fun because it's exciting and new. I am kinda mad at myself for actually starting to like her though.

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Any body language that you take as a definite ioi?

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Have you seen the list? It's full of body language ioi's

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    I have a weird situation,I have a girl who's showing IOIs all the time,she's touching me,looking at me whatever the hell you want she does,sometimes she's looking away when i pass or when she knows I'm looking at her,i catch her eyes on me all the time,when I'm not in the same room as her,she's trying to find a reason to go to that same room and stay.Sometimes when i enter in the morning she's looking at me from the side,as if she wants me to do something.

    So as a JOKE,i once made it look like I'm jealous,now she's trying to make me jealous all the freaking time,what the hell ?When she does that,i just leave to do something,and obviously after a while she's making that giggly face and comes back to me.I don't really understand what's her freaking problem...

    Anyways,once i asked her out,and her answer was...

    "I don't know what to say,i can't go out with you if i don't feel..."
    I tried asking her,what she's supposed to feel to have a dinner with me ?Hungry or something...?

    Now i get the feeling that she thinks that I'm so over the hills in love with her,that she's climbed up somewhere real high,now she's trying to make me jealous all the time,as if i care...and she always checks on me if i look at her...

    I was just experimenting to ignore her a couple of days,she started texting me that i was weird these days...

    So what's wrong with her,can anyone enlighten me,what should i do to get her to go out with me ?

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Great thread. Helps a lot. This will be my main website From now on.

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    When you're building attraction, building rapport, comfort, w.e., especially escalating though, you don't need any sort of signal from her apart from the absence of a negative one.

    A lot of girls give ambiguous signals and it's tough sometimes to tell whether she was just touching her hair or if it was an ioi and you start second guessing yourself. Some girls just like attention and they'll give all these IOI's but don't really mean it. The only time I'll stop is when there's a red-light, and you halt at whatever level of escalation you're at. (eg: The girl moves back, She starts breaking eye contact, or she asks where her friends are, w.e. it may be).

    I'm sure everyone here has talked to girls who just stand there and give no IOI's or almost no IOI's, they don't give anything away. If you're escalating with a girl and she's standing there, it means she's fine with it. The girl doesn't need to touch her hair, or do any of this stuff. I don't think it really matters if you're good at reading signals or not, apart from the negative ones, which are very easy to see. If you're always looking for IOI's and you only escalate when you get them, I guarantee that you're only getting a percentage of the girls you could.
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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    I'd like to know how this list changes if the woman is someone you know. Would you have to bump the indicator from 3 IOIs to maybe 5?

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Is their like a number of IOIs needed to know that it's totally on between her and you?

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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Quote Originally Posted by RavenSword View Post
    Is their like a number of IOIs needed to know that it's totally on between her and you?
    Some state that after three ioi's u should go for the kiss but i don't think that is really valable. I think there are some ioi's that show that it is on like the ddbl, her following u around the venue, licking her lips
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    Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Some state that after three ioi's u should go for the kiss but i don't think that is really valable. I think there are some ioi's that show that it is on like the ddbl, her following u around the venue, licking her lips
    I have a co worker that I think is giving off IOIs on me. She sometimes plays with her hair when talking to me, she's I'd very chatty with me (initiating conversations a lot), laughs at funny things I say, things like that.


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