Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List
When you're building attraction, building rapport, comfort, w.e., especially escalating though, you don't need any sort of signal from her apart from the absence of a negative one.
A lot of girls give ambiguous signals and it's tough sometimes to tell whether she was just touching her hair or if it was an ioi and you start second guessing yourself. Some girls just like attention and they'll give all these IOI's but don't really mean it. The only time I'll stop is when there's a red-light, and you halt at whatever level of escalation you're at. (eg: The girl moves back, She starts breaking eye contact, or she asks where her friends are, w.e. it may be).
I'm sure everyone here has talked to girls who just stand there and give no IOI's or almost no IOI's, they don't give anything away. If you're escalating with a girl and she's standing there, it means she's fine with it. The girl doesn't need to touch her hair, or do any of this stuff. I don't think it really matters if you're good at reading signals or not, apart from the negative ones, which are very easy to see. If you're always looking for IOI's and you only escalate when you get them, I guarantee that you're only getting a percentage of the girls you could.
Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.
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