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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    You've got plenty of reponses but I'll give my 2 cents. In all honesty, height means very little. social value and confidence is what matters. I am 5'5" so not a tall guy at all, but everytime I go places I smile, stand up straight (good posture separates you from the slouching masses), and interact with everyone I can. Why? Women notice when you are the most dominant male (tall or not). Certainly I have been rejected plenty of times in favour of some 6'2" jock with an IQ of a salad fork, but those women aren't worth the trouble. Just brush it off and be the alpha.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    What a thread. I've been asking myself this question for along time (being a 5'4er) it seems like my height always immediately throws me in the friend zone...with the cute girls that comment AWWWW your so cute...hes just a little guy...Nothing gets me off my game more than that...but this could always just be in the back of my head idk.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    there are some things you cant change about yourself. be confident in who you are and that confidence will show when you're at a bar. the truth is that some women prefer shorter men

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    This one I want to know more. Is being 50 pounds overweight but 6 foot chubby better then being 5'4 and in good shape?

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Height isn't a big deal, like someone else mentioned earlier often times some girls will pick the tall athletic dumbasses over a shorter guy but it's just all about how you portray yourself and your value.

    I'm 5' 6" and usually the shortest guy in my friend group, but oftentimes I'm always with the most attractive girl in the room, and ironically enough sometimes they're taller than me too. Be confident, stand tall, and show the alpha and height means nothing.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    So the biggest challenge with the height issue is self-imposed beliefs.

    One month last year I convinced myself, as an experiment, that I was the sexiest man alive. I don't know how I did it, and I've been trying to get back in the state with limited results.

    I had girls coming up to me in clubs to touch my hair, waitresses stopping everything to sit next to me.

    Slowly my limiting beliefs returned and success dropped. I started getting self conscious again about being shorter and less stocky than other dudes around me.

    This is the source of most of my anxiety, and so long as I believe in it, then it exists.

    I am certain with the right state of mind height, age, and other big social-cultural woes disappear.

    But it's like a rodeo, you have to stay on the bull and it's always trying to kick you off. All it takes is some AMOG to come along and try to knock you off with a comment about being smaller than him.

    You also have to be a better man.

    This means more courageous, more virtuous, more honest, more vulnerable. High quality women recognize these things and are drawn to you.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Quote Originally Posted by Biazza View Post
    I'm not short, but I understand when you "think" you have a flaw. When I was younger, I thought I was picking up women, because I was handsome. Now that I'm older, fatter, and bald, I know its how I carry myself!! I pick up more women now then I did when I was buff and 'better' looking!!!

    Remember this guys, the purpose of evolution is to weed out poor genes, flaws. If height was that important, guys would be universally taller than women by a great margin. Put a another way, how many people are born with three legs... a very, very, small percentage (so rare you've never seen someone with three legs...how many short guys have you seen thousands...the world has millions), because having only two legs is important!!!

    Women for the most part are insecure, so they're attracted to men who aren't insecure, alphas. The more "flaws" you have but don't outwardly affect your personalilty or confidence the more attractive you become...you just walk around like your the sh*t and women pick up on that!!!

    ---Biazza
    solid advice. very inspirational and motivating.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I would suggest getting in really good physical shape. Being short isn't the end all and it is mostly in your head. There are plenty of women shorter than you or the same height. Getting your BUFF on will improve your confidence and make you feel more physically secure.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I'm 5'6" and I do pretty well with myself. I do have a friend who is 5'4" and he is a huge player man. So don't get too discouraged.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am 5'5 and have no probs. It depends what u want. I am as tall or taller than most women in my area. But thats what i like. I know most 6 ft tall girls dont want a shorter guy so i dont worry about it. Theres plenty girls left over for me to take lol.

    ALTHOUGH when i have the Mindset that she is automatically disqualified because of her height, i usually do well with them lol! Its like im not worried about picking her up so i act more relaxed and fun.
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