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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am 5'4" myself and if a girl brings that out...and juts say "it would appear that you are to tall...do you actually date". Instead of explaining yourself juts tease them or juts ignore their comment and use the jealousy plot. Once she sees that you can get other cute girls, the least she will pay attention is your height!

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    you are never too short. A good game plan can replace any physical factor. Thats why this plan works with "the male" of a homossexual relationship. In my experience (1,59m) i only date much taller girls than me and they said theyve never got a boyfriend as me and they were always very attached even after breakups

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    i'm 6"1 and i hate being tall, so it's nothing to be ashamed or seen in negative light, David D's guest the man in the wheelchair was pulling chicks left right and centre, he's got the best spirit (Y)

    i wish i could be short

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    @hyp

    Grass is always greener huh lol?

    Prob alot of guys reading this WISH they were 6ft tall.

    I met a man who is 7 ft tall. His wife is 5'3. Their both super nice... but i think of him whenever i doubt my height. Puts my fears into perspective.

    Also, if a tall girl thinks your too short BUT you have good game, her attraction COULD go even HIGHER for u than other guys. People like new ways to feel attraction. Especially women. Perhaps they thought they would never like a short guy, but now they associate good feelings with the shorty... it opens them up to reevaluating what they find attractive... and in the center of these feelings is YOU lol!!!
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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    that's exactly right Lockdown, who cares if you're short or tall it's almost, if not, uncontrollable, play the hand you're dealt (y)

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am 5'6" and have dated a number of taller women including two over 6'. Primarily it takes confidence. If you are in command of a group or showing social worth, the height thing becomes a non-issue in most cases.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I'm 5'3.5" and have dated and hooked up with HB8s or higher. My problem with picking up girls is my aa not my height. About a year ago before I read The Game, my height, acne, style, and anxiety was my biggest roadblock to women. I had a great body due to playing athletics so I was cocky about having a shredded six pack. My acne is clearing up and my body is in the best shape it's ever been. My anxiety grew worse about my height when my friend finally made me realize that I was picking up chick regardless of my height. Not caring about what other people think of your personal flaws can actually be your strength. If someone points out anything you may be worried about, join in with them on the joke. Or ignore it like it doesn't phase you. I've only hooked up with 10+ women and 5 of them were shorter than me. The tallest being 5'8". I don't even think I've ever had to bring the issue of my height into question. The girls might have joked about me being short, but I just neg her back. Being able to think on your feet is key, at least for me it is. I am funny, cocky, and witty. I need to work on my comebacks though.

    I have a friend who's only 5'3" and ever since 5th grade he has had a girlfriend or a steady hookup with the tallest being like 5'11". Some girls dig short guys like mentioned earlier. He's an extremely good dancer and basically says what he wants to say, whether it hurts the girls feelings or not.

    One of the keys to getting over the height issue is take the emphasis off of the height and start emphasizing what makes you great. For me it's now my physique and my ability to entertain people. I just try to calibrate the situation so all eyes are on me with out looking like a jester. My biggest hurdle right now is the approach. I have my wingmans to open the sets but eventually I will have to learn on my own and get over that fear. Alcohol helps but I'm trying to get there sober.

    You could also use sitting to your height advantage. Being on a stool or chair could help. You just have to hope that a cute chick walks by to grab her attention. Having the right posture and body language is key with that also.

    I've tried using those risers at the worst times of my insecurities. But I just changed the way I dressed, got some boots which can give an extra 1/2-1 inch and it makes a difference for me. I guess the idea of being even an inch taller can make you a bit more confident. Dressing like you matter or are important can get you a long way too. Some girls guys who dress like they don't care (even though they do).

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    well actually theirs a point in being too tall as well, i had a friend 6'5 and he stuck out like a sore thumb in our group that to the point it wasn't a good thing, he has terrible luck with woman, walking over for a kiss and having to uncomfortably bend his knees or lean over so that he even has a chance to look at a woman eye level. So 5'4 is not all that bad then being 6'5 and almost like your not socially exceptable. I'm guessing you already though of wearing thick shoes to give you that extra height

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Height means nothing. I a short and have used it as an advantage with making short jokes. Seriously i have never had a girlfriend but that is not because of my height more because i used to be heavy set and was severely sheltered as a kid.

    Learn to use what you have and cant control. Women dont care about height it is all in the personality. 5'5" checking in and never have thought about being taller.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Neill Strauss is 5"6. Nuff said.


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