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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    As David D said, dont worry about stuff you cant control at the moment. You might have bad teeth, which you dont have money to fix BUT how are you doing otherwise?

    Are you clean? Smell good? Dress well? In shape? Good hairstyle? Groomed properly?

    Women notice guys who take care of themselves. One time, a woman told me she liked my eyebrows. Then, she noticed that I trim them a little (I have a slight unibrow that I need to trim every so often). Her friend commented that she liked them also. It was the first thing she noticed when she saw me.

    If these two women noticed my grooming habits and appreciated them, how many OTHER women NOTICED but DIDNT mention it? Interesting stuff...
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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Short guys live longer.. thats a fact! google it! and u don need to be tall to get chics! u need game! Dude. i am 100% sure the guy with chicken feet who doesnt have legs has a gorgeous chic! Just be alpha and dont let other alphas frame u out to be their court jester and bcome the topic of laughter. I stopped hanging with them "friends". Get rid of any1 that DLVs you seriously...
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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I don't know if its this but I being a huge entertainer and not knowing when to stop becomes a dlv. Maybe you should just pull 1-2 funny stuff and then try to build your value more as a male, be more alpha. I also do believe that shorter makes women think you can't protect them, so you need to find another way to show to them that you can protect them. Wearing skinnier clothes will make you look more masculine for example, or start pumping some weights (3 times a week 45mins each time is enough). Also consider body language and posture.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Yes....you are too short. Because if you believe your too short to be worth a damn. Then chances r that you are just that.
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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I'm sure you've already had a plethora of stuff to read since posting this in 2009, but I'm just going to say this for you and everyone else who came here for the same advice on height issues:

    My best friend of 25 years + is short and HAS ALWAYS had success with women ALL his life. He's always been the PERFECT REAL LIFE EXAMPLE of what dating gurus teach. Just to give you a brief summary of his successes, I will tell you this: Not only is he friends with ALL his ex's (in addition to his ex wife he had a child with), but he managed to gain acceptance from the parents of the current Indian girl he's married to. The reason he married the current Indian girl was because he got her pregnant and her culture says that she must be married to whoever she gets pregnant with, so he had to do it and her parents had to accept it based on cultural belief despite the fact that they completely despised him for taking their daughter like that. Not only that, but his mother wasn't happy with the girls' mother and they cussed each other out! He also had to deal with his own mother - who is WORSE. On top of all that, he didn't have a car (and had to use hers as his own) at the time of all this AND if they got divorced now, he'd be out of a home of his own to live in! The reason I talked about all that was because I want to lead into what I'm about to say next- which is important information when it comes to showing you that it's possible to achieve success despite your height issues:

    ---> DURING THE TIME when the Indian girl's parents were still extremely unhappy with the entire situation, he performed and invited them ALL to his musical performance AND THEN invited them all out to lunch afterwards - he, his friends, friends of friends, some band members, the girl/wife, the kids, and the parents! The parents were on him like dirt on a sandy beach - they were relentless with their intimidating and instigating hard to answer questions about his life, future plans, what he plans to do with their daughter, etc. and sarcastic remarks about him on top of all that. To be honest, I don't think I would've been able to maintain composer (or "frame" or whatever it's called) under the type of interrogation questions that the Indian parents were asking him in front of everyone. I would not have known the right things to say to avoid looking like a fool and/or escalating the Tension.

    As a matter of fact, her parents were MUCH MUCH worse than many of the people who learn a little PUA skills then get big and proud and get on YouTube or PUA Forums to talk down to / bully everyone else who has trouble with women by commanding them to magically get over it and expecting them to instantly know how to change themselves in a drop of a dime to be more of a d1ck (and I will admit to doing this in the past as well...)!

    So, there is a moral to the story here. However, before I get to it, I must say one more thing; I'm not one of those people who will say that "If he can do it then EVERYONE IN THE WORLD can / should be able to do it" because I know everyone has different circumstances. I'm also smart enough to know better than to assume that just because I haven't dealt with a particular situation then the problem must not exist or must not be serious for others who actually deal with the issue. After all, I have certain issues that I can bet 95% of the people here would NEVER understand or don't even know exist... Yet, despite my friend's blatant height issues, look at how much he's been able to accomplish! He's had girls give him cars, supply him with a place to live, etc. His ADHD and height issues have never held him back from success.

    If he can do it, or better yet, IF I can change to improve, then THE POSSIBILITY SURELY EXISTS that others in the same boat could manage to make success as well. He's short. I AM ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM - in other words, my brain was designed to naturally make me desire to WANT to do THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE of everything I'm supposed to do to attract women. Maybe I need to start an autism/aspergers related page here.... I will warn you though - if you hate reading a lot or are scared away by too much intellectual thought and deep thinking, you might want to stay away from the high functioning autism/aspergers page.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Your not too short! as crazy as it sounds you can never be too anything? as a PUA there a few things you must know. Women are attracted to all types on men. Im thinking of a picture a seen recently with a very short guy walking on the beach with this model who was like 6'8''. if he can do it you can. You have know your qualities that will naturally attract people to you.
    anything you think puts you at a disadvantage, make it part of your arsenal. i'm not saying start opening with height jokes. I'm saying come in under the radar. make her comfortable, Your not the usual suspect. Thats already in your favor. Once you show her that she can be safe with you she'll be yours.
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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Ia it possible that maybe you are psyching yourself out? Too short doesn't exist man, I know a guy from my university who always seems to be talking and laughing with the most attractive women around. Literally his self confidence is what draws them to him i think, and the fact that he is never afraid and has no Approach Anxiety whatsoever. If your game is as tight as you say then you should be fine and if she doesn't want to dance then that is her problem and you shouldn't be qualifying yourself to her for it.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    As a shorter guy (about 5'5 i think) I struggle slightly with the physical side of things like you say but i have started to draw on my experiences as the guy who's usually the smallest on the rugby pitch. I have to gain respect and alpha status by being completely fearless and whenever i need to feel more alpha i just remember a time I hurt someone a lot bigger than me - try taking a few particularly alpha moments in your life and picture them.

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    I know short, fat, ugly, even crippled men get gorgeous women. They are just some of the millions of men that prove that looks and height don't matter, it's all about flipping her internal attraction switches. It sounds like you need to spend more time talking to them and building attraction. Building attraction is the key.

    Start by walking up to a group of women, do an indirect opener while ignoring your target, then start busting and negging, lots of dhv, cocky funny, compliance test, until you get some IOI's. Also, try to find a way to show preselection. If that means you need to walk into the field arm and arm with a beautiful wing girl, then go for it. Preselection gets unbelievable responses from women.

    A tip on preselection: I take all of my dates to this really cool restaurant that has the hottest waitresses, hostess, and bar tenders. Every time I walk in with a date, all the girls smile ear to ear, check me out, and look to one another clearly communicating "there he is!!" to one another as we walk to our seat. They are used to seeing me walk in hand in hand with nothing but 9s and 10s. Another plus is that my dates notice the all the women there checking me out which only further dials up her attraction as she now sees that the women there are preselecting me. It has sort of a snowball effect. Trust me, I don't say this to brag, in fact I'm one of those guys that some women are physically attracted to and some aren't, but this has given me a goldmine of women who, whenever I want or am in a slump, I can walk into the restaurant with some friends/wingmen , sit at the bar, and have my pick of the women that work there. So find a place in your area that has a bunch of gorgeous women working there and start taking your dates there. Trust me, the women WILL notice and they will become very attracted to you.


    As far as the dance floor, be careful as it can be a trap. I usually wait until I have attraction built with a girl and without asking I lead her onto the dance floor and then after dancing with her for a few, since I now have pre selection from her, I can much more easily start dancing with other girls. It creates a situation where the WOMEN on the dance floor are now competing over YOU rather than trying to get attention from the men who are competing over them.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    lol i just saw this in facebook, but seriously it doesnt matter despite the duuchebag who put the title up

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    hes happy and shes happy


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