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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Alright to the 5,5 homeboy...
    First lemme tell you about a friend of mine, whose your same height..only he is one ugly m******f*** too.
    Yet, he picks up..no regular basis.
    HE goes up to chicks at parties..(he wear a long blue trench coat-tailor made, a kick ass shirt..and leather necklaces and wrists bands..he claims are superpowers.Shamanic powers).
    OK,
    So, he goes up to chicks at parties, and starts telling them (when he gets chance) about his shamanic, tantric powers,etc..
    THEY always, always,always look at him, as if he were a joke, at first...
    he doesn't give a sht..he jsut goes on and on...
    And makes them feel indadeguate, for not, being soo cool, as not understanding what he is talking about..
    By the end, they're are eating out of his hand.
    sorry, I'd elaborate..but I'm at work..

    Another example is a nonpeacocked 5,6 or somehting friend I have..who as such intensity..
    That there are no chicks in the room that don't wanna fark him.
    To secret to get intensity is to concentrate emotion and menataly in what's happining right now, not two seconds ago, not what gonna happen.
    By concetrating now...you body, will automatically give these strong energitcil..
    sorry, I go to go..
    I'll edit this later...

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    We all have our insecurities my friend, I am 6'2, with a very strong build yet I am very unconfident when approaching women (that's why I'm here)

    The short guy with the confidence, and assertiveness, will always look more appealing than a tall guy who is lacking these things.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Quote Originally Posted by LucasElliot View Post
    So the biggest challenge with the height issue is self-imposed beliefs.

    One month last year I convinced myself, as an experiment, that I was the sexiest man alive. I don't know how I did it, and I've been trying to get back in the state with limited results.

    I had girls coming up to me in clubs to touch my hair, waitresses stopping everything to sit next to me.

    Slowly my limiting beliefs returned and success dropped. I started getting self conscious again about being shorter and less stocky than other dudes around me.

    This is the source of most of my anxiety, and so long as I believe in it, then it exists.

    I am certain with the right state of mind height, age, and other big social-cultural woes disappear.

    But it's like a rodeo, you have to stay on the bull and it's always trying to kick you off. All it takes is some AMOG to come along and try to knock you off with a comment about being smaller than him.

    You also have to be a better man.

    This means more courageous, more virtuous, more honest, more vulnerable. High quality women recognize these things and are drawn to you.

    More or less what he said.
    PLus.

    the biggest pua's I've met were short.

    Like, it got to the point that when I walked in a club..The great looking guys didn't scare me (cause they're used getting some, so they have no intensity.)
    It was the short driven guys, that I knew off the bat would be my competition.
    Like, if you were living here, in my town, I wouldn't help you. Cause once you dudes blossom, I'm fraked!.
    But since you're 100000 miles away:

    It's like this, to me there are 2 steps to become the ultimate pick up artist.
    1.Verbal/physical communication
    (there are 10000 openers, phrases, gestures,peacoks etc..etc..)
    2.Vibes/intensity.

    Needelss to say 2. is the most powerful and 1005 effecient.
    But there are no seminar or book that teach it.
    They onyl way to have it, is to stay hungry and go pick up with heart.
    Now..
    My soul, like a sword, as been through fire and back. so I use 2.
    and I beat any other PUA, in the club...
    Unless, there are other ones, that suffered like me, who use vibes of sexual/reassuring intensity.
    And the people who always have stronger intensity are the short ones.
    See, you're forced almost by nature to skip to 2. Which automatically, makes you pick up more than the average.
    But since you're gonna start sooner, the intensity is gonna grow and you're gonna be able to calibrate more than the rest of us.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Quote Originally Posted by chambers124 View Post
    We all have our insecurities my friend, I am 6'2, with a very strong build yet I am very unconfident when approaching women (that's why I'm here)

    The short guy with the confidence, and assertiveness, will always look more appealing than a tall guy who is lacking these things.
    Confidence is more important than tallness. Without confidence it doesn't matter that you are two meters tall. It would be a lie to say that women prefer shorter guys, however, it is only one thing. You can compensate it with confidence smoothly!

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Guys, please. This thread has been around longer than I have. There's no reason to keep adding at this point. There's only so many ways you can say "No, height doesn't matter."
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I'm 5' 7" and although that isn't too short, height is always an issue. You just have to get passed that!

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    It's only a problem if you let it be a problem. Before I started playing the game I was OBSESSED with how I looked. Everything for me was image related. None of my clothes fitted, I wasn't in good shape, I was short, I hated my voice. Bassically, in a nutshell, I didn't love myself - and neither did any women. I'm 5'3-5'5 something like that. I don't measure myself because I don't care. A few positives about being a short guy is the fact that we look younger, we pack on muscle fairly easy, which is a great advantage for getting in shape and my personal favourite... We can be very underestimated.

    The thing is we are always going to get ripped by our friends and colleagues etc. because of our height just the same as overly tall people get the frankstein and lurch jokes aimed at them. But all you gotta do is smile, laugh it out, make a little joke, don't let it bother you, and request a ladder.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am a short guy, below is a dialogue between a girl and me:

    Girl:You are short.
    Me: Yes. I am short.
    You are very short.
    Yes, I am very short.
    I don’t like a short guy.
    Why don’t you like a short guy?
    I am not attracted to a short guy.
    Why are you not attracted to a short guy?
    I don’t like a short guy.
    Why don’t you like a short guy?
    A short guy is not attractive.
    Why is a short guy not attractive?
    I don’t know.
    Why is a short guy not attractive?
    I don’t think a short guy is attractive.
    Why don’t you think a short guy is attractive?
    I think that way.
    Why do you think that way?
    I don’t’ know.

    Below is a dialogue between a therapist and me:


    Therapist: You are short. How do you feel?
    Me:I don’t feel anything.
    When a beautiful tall girl is in close proximity to you, how do you feel?
    I feel a little tight.
    Why do you feel a little tight?
    I feel a little intimidated.
    Why do you feel a little intimidated?
    I am short.
    Why do you feel a little intimidated because you are short?
    Because there is contrast.
    What contrast?
    Contrast between heights.
    Why do you say that there is contrast between heights?
    I am a short guy, while there is a beautiful tall girl. People will notice that.
    Why will people notice that?
    Because they are noticeable.
    Why are they noticeable?
    It goes without saying that they are noticeable.
    Why does it go without saying that they are noticeable?
    This Phenomenon is unusual.
    Why is this phenomenon unusual?
    It is not common.
    Why is it not common?
    Why is it common?
    I see. So do you mean all people will notice that?
    Some people.
    What percentage?
    I don’t know. Maybe 3 out of 10.
    That’s 30%.
    Yes.
    So why do you feel a little tight when 30% of people notice that there is a short guy(you) and there is a beautiful tall girl?
    They notice the contrast between heights.
    So why do you feel a little tight when 30% of people notice the contrast between you and the beautiful tall girl?
    They will give me attention.
    Why do you feel a little tight because they give you attention?
    I don’t want that attention.
    Why don’t you want that attention?
    It makes me feel uncomfortable.
    Why does it make you feel uncomfortable?
    I don’t know.
    Why does it make you feel uncomfortable? Because I am being negatively judged.
    Why are you being negatively judged?
    Because they are paying attention to my imperfection.
    Why is your shortness your imperfection/
    Of course it is my imperfection.
    Why of course is it your imperfection?
    Shortness is not valued by this society.
    Why is shortness your imperfection because it is not valued by this society?
    I don’t know.
    Why is shortness your imperfection because it is not valued by this society?
    I don’t know.
    Now when a beautiful tall girl is in close proximity to you, how do you feel? I don’t feel anything.
    Why don’t you feel anything?
    Why do I need to feel something/
    You don’t want to talk to her?
    No.
    Why?
    I don’t want to.
    Why don’t you want to?
    I don’t know.
    Why don’t you want to?
    I don’t’ know.
    I see. Bye.
    Bye.


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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Think BIG! I'm 5.7. And girls in heels struggle with me. I think it's just as much their insecurity as ours. Girls hafta be smaller. If not the whole polarity thing then also social norms. The hidden gem maybe the tiny 5ft1 girls who are so dainty and cute. You still have three inches on them. Do you work out? A small strong solid guy is surely more appealing than some weak lamppost. You obviously have some force and intelligence by your words alone. You may not get the leggy self-conscious girls. But who wants them? Keep being the leader of men and I'm sure it will slot together within time.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Similar to the NBA, the shorter you are, the more skill, patience and persistence are necessary. You just have to work harder, if thats something difficult for you then you are in fact 'too short'.


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