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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Tom Cruise is only 3 inches taller than you. That's nothing. They've even developed certain filming techniques to make him appear taller and more heroic in his movies. Obviously, one of these is not putting him next to tall men in the same shot. You see where I'm going with this...

    When approaching/isolating, be sure you're a good measure away from your tall male friends, and NEVER justify or defend your height, because you're then acknowledging that it's a flaw (it isn't!)

    I also don't like your "I'm big where it counts" retort. It's canned, cliched and oversexual. Instead, play with her. Pick a short girl:

    "Hi, I'm [blah]"
    "You're not very big"
    "That's because I'm not wearing heels tonight, like you. Kick those off you cheater, and come here"

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    5'10" is the USA average height for males, since it seems most of you who are 5'9" feel "short."

    I'm 5'7". You don't have to "buy" elevator shoes. Just buy some flip-flops for the price of a candy bar. Cut the heel out, and stick it in your shoe under your heel.
    Adjust according to how much height you want.

    Also you'll need to wear boots or high-tops, and tie the laces around your ankles tightly.
    You start walking weird when you go too high, and without any lifts you can easily lean back, which is great alpha posture. Difficult to stand relaxed and alpha when you're on your tip-toes.

    Also, here's a great line:

    "I'll be taller than you when you get on your knees."

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Quote Originally Posted by BadMedicine View Post
    What they said, but also:


    ....

    when you can work it, pick sitting chicks, or a place to sit where you can 'troll' from.

    ....

    If an option, pick shorter chicks. Not saying you've got to turn down tall ones, but if it's a target rich environment, your time invested may be better used with shawtys.

    ....it'd take a pretty shallow beast to dis you based on height. Think "Danny Divito"


    G....

    Great points, but sitting down will make you even shorter. This is especially true if you're wearing 2 inch lifts in your shoes. Standing, your 2 inches taller than you really are, but sitting, you appear as short as you are (unless you carry 2 inch-thick wallets in both rear pockets...I've actually done something similar when I knew I'd be sitting with others).

    Picking shorter chicks may be a good idea...I've done that. However, I've had 3 girlfriends who were UNDER 5 feet tall. One was 4'11", and the other was 4'10", the other was probably 5'. They were all very attractive.
    After leaving them, I noticed that they went for VERY tall guys.

    I believe very short girls tend to go for very tall guys; just something I've noticed.
    I think it's because when a girl is very short, the world is even scarier for her, so she wants to pair or ally with a stronger man (or one who appears big and strong).

    I used to resent girls for demanding that their guy be taller.
    Like you, I would've called them "shallow."
    But I have known a wonderful woman who had this demand. She and I were best friends. She was not shallow.

    We also have "shallow" preferences. But just because you won't consider dating a 200 lb sea cow doesn't make you a shallow person.

    As has been said, what we can do about it is
    trip the Protector attraction switch.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    looks dont matter its all depends on your personality.
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I think something only becomes a problem if you think it is.

    So if you think you're "short", that comes through to your subcommunications. And everything goes downhill from there.

    Change your thinking - your frame - and everything else should follow.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Simple answer, looks, including height, do not mean anything in attraction.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    That’s true you seem to be doing all the right things but from what ive been learning woman respond to other woman so its good that you’re the alpha around the males but you need a woman even if shes just a friend by your side I feel like your trying hard to be cool with the guys but you are lacking a chick in the scenario like show up already with a girl even if you guys separate after make her appear like shes having a blast when you first walk in.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    THIS POST IS DEAD. IT SHOULD BE DEAD. LET IT BE DEAD.

    This was posted years ago and somehow, some way, it's been carried sixteen whole goddamn pages. Stop. Just stop posting in this thread. Before you post, read this, and don't post. It is not that hard.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Don't think too hard about the physical aspects of yourself. Yes hitting the gym, being healthy, having a tan, and being taller all help one's chances a little. Luckily for you and me, I am only tan. I use to think that being 5'5 was going to be detrimental to me, but its our clutch buddy. We have something more powerful than being taller, and that's having the ability to "Come Under the Radar". I already know what kind of issues you are making and frankly all it really is for you is more for you to let go of that limiting belief. You may not think so, but you having insecurities about whatever will influence all other aspects of your game. Enjoy who you are and don't feel the need to change yourself for someone else. Want some tips to help your game, here it goes....

    1. social proof with girls more. Start coming to these events with attractive female friends. Be it relatives, coworkers, former lays that became friends, or just hot friends you have. These girls will garner the attention of the room. Have fun with these girls and the other girls in the room will wonder to themselves why they are not enjoying their time with you. Getting hot females friends is not hard. Instead of approaching a girl to get in her pants, try making her an awesome friend because I will always give up one lay to have the potential to use her to help me get three. Anyways when she sees you having success with a lot of girls, she will start to wonder why she isn't having sex with you either. Great way to get a "friend" to turn into a "fark friend".

    2. Take more charge! Don't ask if a girl wants to grab a drink or wants to go dance. Tell her, "Hey I'm thirsty but I don't want to interupt this great conversation. Follow me to the bar so we can finish this and so I can also get a drink " "You look like your enjoying this song.....Oh you are? Perfect me too. Lets dance! "

    3. Don't add so much pressure on yourself when pertaining to girls. Go have fun and you will realize that the more you ignore them, the more they will for some reason gravitate to you. Its at this point you communicate with girls.

    4. Throw your own social events. This is probably the easiest thing someone can do to increase their sex life, but generally people don't want the responsibilities and the cost for this. That's fine. All you have to do is try to get friends to host at their place and you just become one of the lead promoters. This increases your social value by a ton. In this environment, you are one of the alphas because you organized this fun event. Try to host one at least once a month.

    Good Luck Buddy!

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Stand up straight, buy shoes the make you taller and go for girls who are shorter than you. Sorry but that's all I got. As a tall guy I've had women act as though I'm too tall for them or that they are scared of me or something(I'm 6'3" which is not even freakishly tall; not by a stretch(no pun intended).


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