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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I don't have problems with being short... With me sometimes it is being too tall... I am 6 ft 7 ... but I have noticed that quite a few girls seem to dig it

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am 5'6''...not as short as you but short enough. My last girl was 5'11'', trust me I know about being short. It is not a sticking point for me in my inner game at all, but it is something that girls tend to think about.
    1) I can't wear heals around him because he's too short (girls love heals it makes the apperance, although misleading, of longer and skinnier legs)
    2) I will have to crowtch down in pictures so he appears to be taller so we look better as a couple
    3) I think I am already not a good dancer, trying to dance with someone that short will make me look worse, my ass is already at his chest, how do I dance like that?!

    It's a great thing that you have developed your dhv and being the Alpha. Instead of saying things like "Well I am bigger where it counts" I would hit her with a neg. Saying what you said is only making you validate yourself to her, instead get her to validate to you. Example, try saying something like "I'll make a deal with you, buy me a drink and I'll pretend that you really aren't a shallow person."

    Pitch

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    good stuff guys, thanks

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    well I'm fucking 6'6 so I'm probably an asshole for even replying but height is one of those things you can't work at so why even worry about it just work on other things.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    You are not too short... you are too concerned about it.
    - Spool

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    women DONT ANALYZE, EVALUATE, and REALIZE THIS when they see you. when they see you they think aww hes cute! game is about meeting someone and leaving them more attracted to you than when you just met them. dont overthink this

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    Pierrot couldnt have said it better

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    No you are not, its all in ur head. work on inner game

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    I am also a very short guy (5'2").

    How on earth these mythical confident short men everyone is talking about in this forum BECAME confident in the first place? I really don't see how. Consider this:

    A) The first problem is how do short men get to practice their social skills? In the North American city where I live, about 95% of the women I meet are taller than me, so I instinctively stay away from them. "Wrong!", you may say. But not so fast: I DID try to talk to taller women in the past, and when I do, the women always avoid eye contact, do not smile, do not engage in conversation beyond one-word answers. So there is no rapport. As if the game was lost before it even got started.

    These are the best cases. In the worst cases, I get comments such as "I am not attracted to short guys", "I don't date dwarves", or (ha ha) "Go grow up and then come back to me". You can understand that this does not help me develop self-confidence.

    So the results is that at 50 years old, I am still very unpracticed at striking conversation with people.

    How on earth do these short guys develop confidence? Assuming they exist, but color me skeptical on this.

    You may say "Develop social skills online". But

    B) The Internet is even worse. Women on dating sites DO NOT REPLY to short guys. Add to that that I am bald and 50 years old. And I don't want to lie about my height - it's not something I am comfortable with. "Wrong!" you may say: "just contact shorter women". Well I DO, BUT THEY DO NOT REPLY! I just did a quick search yesterday on the short women in my hometown: typically the 5'1" woman will seek a partner 5'8" and above. A typical charitable comment would be "sorry, but I want to be able to wear high heels when I feel like it".

    I frankly don't believe that **some** short guys can have success or develop a strong sense of confidence with women, because in my experience, women do not give us even a chance.

    My only option at this point is to save some money and take extended vacations in foreign countries where my height would not be so much under average (Asia - you can guess where).

    I'd love to be proven wrong. Show me a confident short man who gets women on a consistent basis in North America without investing a workweek of 60 hours - but I see that all the PUAs out there are taller than average: Alex Coulson, Brad P., Ross Jeffries, Mystery, etc.

    Nah, it can't be done.

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    Default Re: Am I Too Short?

    What body type do you have? Perhaps you can start some body building and put some muscles up to decrease your height disadvantage.


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