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    Default Your Process for Attraction/A2

    Hey everybody! I am having a problem. This problem is that I can consistently get phone numbers, open any conversation, and never run out of things to talk about. However, all of my phone numbers are flakes. So, I assume that I have a 100% flake rate because I'm not doing attraction correctly. I run natural game, but will use occasional routines and also believe that the emotional progression model (open, attract, qualify, comfort, seduction) is important to follow.

    So, I am wondering what your exact game-plan is for attraction? When you get past the opening and transition, what exactly do you do?

    Thanks everybody! I want to get past this sticking point.

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    Default Re: Your Process for Attraction/A2

    It might not even be your attraction... You might want to text then and build comfort( women like men who try to get to know them). You can't get the number and call her like "me, you, lets go out." It's all about building rapport AND COMFORT after you get the number. Some women also need you to play the long game. All women are different( you know this) so you need to calibrate to each one.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Your Process for Attraction/A2

    Maybe you're right! But here's the thing: Sometimes my texts aren't even replied to. ...I'm assuming that counts as a flake.

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    Default Re: Your Process for Attraction/A2

    Idk I woundn't count those as flakes. Just try to convey yourself as an interesting person, no crappy texts that she gets from all the other guys that try to talk to her. Also there's no such thing as a 100% success rate. Texting is hard and you have to FAIL( alot) before you can become good and lower your flake rates. Summary: convey yourself as an interesting person, only fun and light texts, and if they don't reply wait a couple of days and text them again( don't mention how she didn't text you the last time or anything, start with a new slate), and finally if the girl ignored your texts a lot then drop them and move on, she's not interested; you have to know when to walk away.
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    Default Re: Your Process for Attraction/A2

    Since you run natural game and you never run out of things to say you should use that as an asset.

    When you get a number from a HB just tell them you'll text with them but you prefer to talk over the phone. This lowers their expectation of your text game. I find that talking over the phone works very well for me. I use the phone chats to build rapport and comfort. Once you have that then you can set a D1.

    Only try this if you're a conversationalist and girls find you easy to chat with on the phone otherwise you'll fail. It also sets you apart from most guys because they only text these days.


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