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    Default I am NOT safe, women are stepping it up

    What the F is going on? Input needed. You guys know I love the approach when I am out sarging so I'm not going to be referring to that here. That Tinder chick said she would "love" something to happen soon then she starts playing hard to get the minute I email her so I put her on a Freeze Out today to punish even though I asked her out. So she said she was so ready to make it happen then now she is stalling to test me since I think she does actually want a BF!?

    Then I went to the Gym and got hit on by the girl there like always though not a target. A stunner walks in in her gym clothes for a tour! She just got done from her other gym obviously since she never signed up and just toured the men there. She was checking me HARD! Like staring, smiling, couldn't take her eyes off of me what the hell I am by no means super buff and she wanted me to approach her outside but I failed. It ruined my work out cuz I realized she never signed up and just came in bored and wanted male attention and because I didn't approach her with a good excuse she is lost forever. Women are stepping it up what the hell. Who the hell tours gym looking for fresh meat I feel so used.

    Then I heard this 10 from POF, FB, and the bar who never spoke to griping about peeps deleting her on FB so I sent her a friend request to calm her down. She then sends me a fake FB account with a fake name since I know that fake rack from anywhere and literally just a pic of her rack when she always uses her face then deleted the fake FB account. What the F? Does she enjoy me wallowing in my self-misery. What is with these girls and why are they getting so crazy stepping it up to cloud 9 game level?
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    Default Re: I am NOT safe, women are stepping it up

    Man, I wish I hard your luck. I suppose we all need to step it up a bit sometimes. I noticed some women checking me out at the gym the other day also but none of them were super hot or anything.

    You mentioned something about the Freeze Out. I personally wouldn't recommend doing that. Instead I would try to pace her reality instead of punishing her. Say something like "yeah it's cool. We can take it slow. Real slow. We can go on our first date in three months. It's all fine by me." This way you are not ignoring her but instead showing her you are indifferent to her bratty or passive behavior.

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    Yeah not that lucky Tinder chick is ignoring me today after I broke the freeze like you said. So now definitely going to Freeze Out. Nothing more I can do she might be gone as fast as she came which is very common. But that's fine. You know I was thinking that stunner who was staring hardcore there was no way to approach since she was taking a tour and if I jumped on her outside that would have been SO obvious. Not only creepy but predator like. I have to wait for openings not just jump on girls everywhere that would be freaky as hell and probably would have called the gym to report me. If she comes back I will definitely hit her up since she WANTED me bad.

    It ain't bad bro that we can't approach chick. I have been reported before so I know certain situations don't allow it. This is why we sarge so we won't be needy in an awkward situation where women are too unapproachable. If she comes back I'll make it happen but I doubt she's coming back. It doesn't matter cuz I'll have plenty of girls to talk to when I'm out sarging next Summer. This is why I won't feel like a loser since I'll have plenty of women to keep me company. These kind of "lost causes" drive my motivation up and up for all those lost women it will give me a strong drive when I go out sarging next Summer again like I said.
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    Default Re: I am NOT safe, women are stepping it up

    About that problematic female, I feel you. I slept with this one girl and now she's playing rollercoaster with me and randomly messaging me every blue moon and never responding to my texts unless I show emotion, but it's okay because I'm over it because I made some new friends and I have a girl coming from overseas to visit me.

    Your gym incident, would be my gym dream. I [would have] given her a smile and see how she reacts, that way it's not creepy if I actually decided to approach her later, but it's a would have now - live and learn.

    But you're getting looks bro and you're probably a very attractive guy and that's why these women are into you. Now I'm just preaching to the choir.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NoctisCaelumPUA View Post
    What the F is going on? Input needed. You guys know I love the approach when I am out sarging so I'm not going to be referring to that here. That Tinder chick said she would "love" something to happen soon then she starts playing hard to get the minute I email her so I put her on a Freeze Out today to punish even though I asked her out. So she said she was so ready to make it happen then now she is stalling to test me since I think she does actually want a BF!?

    Then I went to the Gym and got hit on by the girl there like always though not a target. A stunner walks in in her gym clothes for a tour! She just got done from her other gym obviously since she never signed up and just toured the men there. She was checking me HARD! Like staring, smiling, couldn't take her eyes off of me what the hell I am by no means super buff and she wanted me to approach her outside but I failed. It ruined my work out cuz I realized she never signed up and just came in bored and wanted male attention and because I didn't approach her with a good excuse she is lost forever. Women are stepping it up what the hell. Who the hell tours gym looking for fresh meat I feel so used.

    Then I heard this 10 from POF, FB, and the bar who never spoke to griping about peeps deleting her on FB so I sent her a friend request to calm her down. She then sends me a fake FB account with a fake name since I know that fake rack from anywhere and literally just a pic of her rack when she always uses her face then deleted the fake FB account. What the F? Does she enjoy me wallowing in my self-misery. What is with these girls and why are they getting so crazy stepping it up to cloud 9 game level?
    Idk what to say about rest but to hell with the last one. There are better fish to chase out there then one's like those.

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    Back to ground zero. My Tinder chick went AWOL and didn't reply to my 3rd email now. So I am going to see if she chases me by totally letting her go and no longer seeking her validation to flip her switch but know for sure I should not go AFC crazy and email her everyday "thinking" something will change thus causing Oneitis. So I am letting her go in hopes she will come back. On the FB chick that was a misunderstanding of a Black chick I thought was her since it was so dark.

    On the Gym chick I am not holding out in hopes she comes back because hot chicks disappear so rapidly. I have to learn to pull the trigger more often and not be such a moron. Either way I am back down to ground zero which is good since I can go back to focusing on my Outer Game which is what I was wanting anyway. Now I won't be so distracted leaving the Gym early in an emotional mess.
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    Hey noc whenever that happens always try to engage even if its just a simple greeting or head nod.with time body may get used to it.this is caused by the Tension you feel with the quick ioi.u may never be expecting it so its normal it throws you off.but as time passes and you delve deeper into game expect it to happen especially as you get known within circles sometimes they come with high level of attraction.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Hey noc whenever that happens always try to engage even if its just a simple greeting or head nod.with time body may get used to it.this is caused by the Tension you feel with the quick ioi.u may never be expecting it so its normal it throws you off.but as time passes and you delve deeper into game expect it to happen especially as you get known within circles sometimes they come with high level of attraction.
    Absolutely epic nuff said. You really want me to be rolling in style at all times on all cylinders? Man I would have to be a thug PUA to go there when certain situations are highly difficult and only advanced level territory still I will remember what you said and be ready to engage at the Gym, at the Store as I am seeing a lot of missed opportunity there lately. I don't feel entitled till I accomplish my goals but like you said screw it be ready. I'll try that on for size and update as it goes along. Thanks big eyeopener. Note to self- stunners come to Gyms and feed me the eyes even though I am not the biggest guy around. Check.
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    Default Re: I am NOT safe, women are stepping it up

    Hey Noc. Think I'm a little behind on the details. I've been tearing through Tinder and have very consistent results at this point with a basic step-by-step approach, so I wanted to check in on that.

    Why did you get her email over phone number? Between email and tinder, tinder is actually better. Some people still don't have automatic downloads of new messages on their phones yet for email.

    Also, I've found freeze outs are incredibly ineffective on Tinder. Maybe they work if you're in a suburb with only a handful of users but I'm in Vegas which has a lot of people. When I used Tinder in Vegas, SF, and New York, I learned quickly that girls have an ABUNDANCE of matches on Tinder. Literally TONS. Freeze outs don't work becuase they can just get their "Flirt fix" from another guy. Also, because of all the guys in their cache, they will likely not even notice you're gone.

    If you had gotten the number or her Facebook instead of email, I think things would have moved a lot quicker for you.
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    Yh have material before hand start slow, and amp from there.


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