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    Default How Do You Give Less Effort?

    I found a new equation recently, and I have been turning it over in my mind ever since then. Here it is:

    Interest Received - Effort Given = Attraction.

    Essentially, the less you try, the more attraction you get.

    So what are some ways that we can look like we're trying less?

    Here's what I've got so far:
    1) false time constraint (that could backfire though... like, if you only have a second, why should you make an effort to chat her up?)
    2) Blow your nose
    3) Eat a candy bar

    What else can you think of?

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    Default Re: How Do You Give Less Effort?

    Hi mate,

    You might already know this, but just for anyone else who is a newbie, this is an oversimplification. Not going out represents no effort, but you will be unlikely to get any girls........

    Definitely tends to be a good call not to fall into chasing however.

    I prefer to let this happen naturally. If you have high standards, and need to be won over, then you won't look like you are trying from the offset. Guys who don't have standards tend to agree with the girl to try and make her like them instead of agreeing when they actually agree, and various other similar mistakes.
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    Default Re: How Do You Give Less Effort?

    Quote Originally Posted by jesse.sachs View Post
    I found a new equation recently, and I have been turning it over in my mind ever since then. Here it is:

    Interest Received - Effort Given = Attraction.

    Essentially, the less you try, the more attraction you get.

    So what are some ways that we can look like we're trying less?

    Here's what I've got so far:
    1) false time constraint (that could backfire though... like, if you only have a second, why should you make an effort to chat her up?)
    2) Blow your nose
    3) Eat a candy bar

    What else can you think of?
    Hey Jesse,

    As redzone stated your "equation" is an oversimplification.

    Its not about the amount of effort your putting into the interaction. What counts most is how invested you are in the interaction. If your telling yourself this has to be the girl than guess what you become needy in her eyes and she losses interest. You will eventually need to invest in the interaction otherwise it will go nowhere.

    To get a girl attracted to you is called breaking rapport. When you do this you show the girl you have witt, charm and charisma with your words. Also Breaking Rapport goes against what everyother guy is doing out there.
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