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    Default Cold Readings

    My adored PUAs

    I spent some time reading on this "technique". Don't want to ask any questions, just felt like writing down what I feel about it.

    It's fantastic. Probably flawless for building up admiration and respect from someone. It's simple. At least it is for me.

    It's a matter of
    paying attention, knowing when to make an observation and being self-critical. I know what I want from my life, and human beings don't tend to vary too much. We're pretty much the same basic ideas shown in different packages.

    A cold reading is simply that. Showing how equal we are. It leads to that lovely feeling of completeness/understanding/relatedness (oops, I just said 3 emotions... naughty). There's no magic, no routines.

    I bet you all want to fulfil your dreams. And you need security to reassure you that you're not going to end up destroyed in the end. No one likes crushed dreams. That's why we all try and understand everything. Knowledge brings safety. We need to know how women react to our approaches. Reaching a stage where we actually call this a "game". There are rules and outcomes from our actions that can be planned and control. Maybe we're all weak, right? If you think about it, it really is not that you're weak, you just want to be as strong as you can. Live the best life that you can. We've all been there right?

    And this is how you do a cold reading. Love it.

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    Default Re: Cold Readings

    I've always been confused with cold reading in PUA. Can you give me some examples? Like a scenario.
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    Default Re: Cold Readings

    Buy the Full Facts Book of cold reading. Good read on Cold Reading.
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    Default Re: Cold Readings

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    I've always been confused with cold reading in PUA. Can you give me some examples? Like a scenario.
    Cold readings are observations that are ambiguous and general and therefore they tend to be applicable to everyone, giving them a false (yet true) sense of truth. As you use it on a lady, she'll think you two are so similar it's incredible. And it's the fact that you have common values that she hasn't even told you about that leads to the attraction.

    An example is called "the cube". You tell her to imagine a desert, with an horizon and the sky. Nothing else.

    Then, ask tell her to picture a cube in the desert. How big is the cube? Is it near the sky or near the ground? (the cube is a representation of herself. A big cube means a good self-esteem. A small one means the opposite - a critical and non-grateful person ; If it is near the sky, she's ambitious and a dreamer - aka shoot for the stars - if it's near the ground... she's a realist. Lets put it like this to avoid offensive vocabulary).

    Next step: picture a ladder. Is it a long ladder? Is it close to the cube or far away? (The ladder represents her friends. A long ladder means she has a lot of friends. She's a people's person. She needs friends and family to progress in life ; A ladder close to the cube means she is close to her friends. A ladder far away means the opposite).

    Now imagine some flowers. How many are there? What colour are they? And what do they smell like? (The flowers represent the children she wants to have. So the number of flowers => number of children ; Lively colours means she'll have her children as a source of happiness and life. The opposite... again, means the opposite)

    Finally, picture a storm. How big is it? Is it far away or close to the big? (The storm is also known as the problems in life. A big storm means you're dealing with someone with a negative outcome in life. A Close storm means she's dealing with some problems at the moment).

    The best thing about cold readings is that they don't need to be right. They tend to be, but when they don't, as she'll talk about herself to prove you wrong, you'll pick up some hints that will allow you to do a cold reading.

    Say if you said she's optimistic and she replies with "Actually I'm not! I'm really negative. I tend to think if the worst can happen it will happen!!". Then you can easily turn the tables around: "Then your eyes lie. You have really observative eyes. The way you look at things... seems like you're starving for knowledge. They have a certain glow to it, you're definitely a happy person. At least when you look at me you are! ". You just gave a compliment to her personality while noticing her eyes. You didn't compliment her eyes themselves, but what they allowed to "read".

    You can use it on any situation. You see she's being observational, drop her the reading above. You see she's looking happy, drop her a reading about being a happy person. If she acts defensive, tell her that you've always known she's like that. That she needs assuring that her dreams are not going to be crushed as she has imagined her perfect life already and will not allow anything to stop her from getting it. And you feel the same... always. Because you do.

    It's a beautiful way to talk. There's no better compliment than paying attention.

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    Default Re: Cold Readings

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    I've always been confused with cold reading in PUA. Can you give me some examples? Like a scenario.
    Cold reading tends to become easier when confidence builds. Its simply an observation of the other person. Unfortunately, your usually socially punished when you point out everything that's around you... "oh look at that cow. Holy crap that's a big barn. What a nice car! That guy looks homeless." We get it, you see sh1t, now shut up. But that's exactly what your doing in a cold read. Making that observation, and then using inductive reasoning to imply what that may mean about the person.

    "Oh look at that cow, you must be an excellent farmer." "That's a huge barn, you really know your way around construction." "What a nice car! You really pride yourself on your image." "That guy looks homeless"... Well, he might be homeless.

    For a girl... "I can tell your the leader of your friends, you must be very assertive." "You just go with the flow, you gotta be one of those care free types."

    Typically your going to get more information from them if your cold read is wrong. Sounds redundant, but your much more implied to defend your position than to further an agreement, nature of the beast. "Your arms are huge, you work out all the time, I can tell." "I haven't hit the gym in 3 months, I've been so busy at work." Or... "Yeah, thanks."

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    Default Re: Cold Readings

    I have studied up on palmistry and I have to say it's been time well spent learning it.

    You can be anywhere and your wingman just has to hint that you can read palms. The HBs will volunteer their hands. Instant keno, read the palm, add in a bit of cold reading and you have girls offering their numbers to you.

    Learn palmistry my friends lots of EASY f-closes on nights out at lounges and bars. The clubs are too loud to run that game.


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