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    Default Overcoming Girl Code and Flirting Call Outs

    This girl was in the same sorority as my ex-girlfriend in college (both of us are 23 now). They are not really friends but she mentioned the 'girl code' thing. She even refused to give me her number (we were chatting on facebook) for a while, but we kept talking on facebook and I finally got the digits. She seems to be kind of warming to the idea, and the chemistry seems to be there but there are a couple road-blocks.

    1. How do I get this 'girl code' thing out of the picture. Again -- they are not close friends, and I doubt they ever talk -- but I assume she is worried about what others think.
    2. She keeps calling me out for flirting and being into her. IE -- Me- "I say you try out a line on me... See how it feels"(in reference to flirting) Her - "To reel you in? I think you're already floundering around in my boat." Now -- clearly she has been around the block, and can tell that I am flirting. What I am more concerned about is whether this is a sign that she isn't into me, that she wants reassurance that I am flirting, or she is just defensive for above and other reasons.

    Please HELP!!

    Best,
    David

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    Default Re: Overcoming Girl Code and Flirting Call Outs

    Double posting isn't necessary.
    BUT, to try addressing your question(s)...

    It's OK if a girl thinks you'e flirting; that's the whole idea. Express interest in a fun, confident way.
    AND... you're probably getting a slight sh!t test if she's calling you out & flirting back with you.

    When she said you're "floundering around in her boat"... you could've replied with something like: "Well, your bait & hook technique got my attention, so yeah I'll bite." Then wink & smile...

    It's all about razzing & teasing. That's it.
    Don't over-think it, just have FUN with it & you'll be golden!



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    Default Re: Overcoming Girl Code and Flirting Call Outs

    Awesome advice on both fronts. I'll refrain from double posting.

    On something of a cold streak and the confidence levels are low. I'm thinking I need some old fashioned self esteem to get back to my bad self:

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    Default Re: Overcoming Girl Code and Flirting Call Outs

    haha she's funny! have fun with her responses. they shouldn't bother you. in fact i find it attractive when a girls has a sense of humor and can playfully fight back like that. it's much better than girls who don't respond at all.


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