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Thread: IOI or IOD?

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    Default IOI or IOD?

    Hey all!

    Today I said to a girl (about 10 minutes into the interaction), "Has anybody ever told you that you have really pretty eyes?"

    She said "no."

    She took time to think of a response, and said "Has anybody ever told you that you have a weird looking nose?"

    Is this an ioi or IOD? Shit-test?

    She was constantly shit-testing me, although it was so many times that I begin to wonder if that's just her personality.

    Help?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: IOI or IOD?

    I may not be able to help you as much as some other guys but I can tell you what I think. I have this girl I run into on occasion, and she teases a good amount because that is how she flirts with me. So she says things that sound insulting, but they are really backed with warmth and a smile that's how I know she is joking/flirting. However, if the girl you were talking to was smiling and giggling when she said it, it could be an ioi if she said it with no smile at all, chances are she was giving you an IOD.

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    Default Re: IOI or IOD?

    OUCH!

    From what you've described, it sounds like a 'shit test'. I don't know how well you know this girl or if it's someone you just met. A lot of alpha girls are like that. They want to see if you can keep up with their jabs.

    Regardless, you have to treat it like a Shit test. If it was an IOD, she wouldn't want to continue talking to you after the first time. She wouldn't even want to be invested in future conversations. She would be avoiding you or cutting the conversation short. I've known girls like her (well maybe not that brutal lol) but when they are not interested they do the opposite. They act polite, say a few words and excuse themselves.

    lol. I would've told her "You remind me of my mom. When I was born and she saw my face, she told the doctors to stuff me back inside."

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    Default Re: IOI or IOD?

    Thanks guys!

    This wasn't my best set, but I'll do better tomorrow!

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    Default Re: IOI or IOD?

    Well... That was a very direct approach, so I'm guessing to go natural or direct in your game, even that tho, its written everywhere and I have personally tested this myself and always but always, when you open direct you compliment something about her, NOT HER LOOKS, but like "Hey I saw smiling from there and I think you look like a cool person, is that right?" etc
    compliments about how she is, "It looks like you have a good energy" I don't know much openers about being direct because that isn't normally the way I open because I personally think that you should open direct or indirect depending on the situation(like being hybrid, have knowledge about the two games)

    Hope it helps!


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