*have a strong body language
*have a strong speech
*compliment something specific
e.g" you have an incredible style. Its clear you have a good taste and sense of coordination"
*i love the way your hair just cascades off your head like that. Its so alluring
girl: thank you,blah blah
you:"seriously,its so rare where i am from to see a woman with this kind of style,you have something unique about you that most women don't have"