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    Default Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Hey!

    I've been gaming pretty well in school. I am a high school student.

    However, I'm running out of people to game at school. So, I am now sarging and building up the skill level to game adults.

    My question is, is it possible for a teenager to game an adult in her 20s or 30s? Not only is it possible, is it likely?

    I can see that this is a limiting belief, and I know I should get rid of it... IF its worth it. Do you think that I can do it?

    I know that I can do anything if I believe in myself, but something seems so different and new about the very idea of a high school kid getting dates with REAL women (not high schoolers).

    Thanks, forum! Love ya all...
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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Hell yea.

    It's easier to date older women in their 30s. In Vin Dicarlo's terms, there is the concept of "The Conflict of Time." That's why you see women who are older becoming cougars and they become much more aggressive in dating and approaching guys, even to the point of hitting on guys. It has to do with the feeling that her time is running out. There is this cougar club in the city where I live, where alot of guys I know go to get easy pickups. A young good looking guy without game doesn't need to do any work. I've seen cougars swarm em like white on rice. Alot of these women are divorced from a rich hubby or they are financially well-off women with good careers. Some guys can even get away being man-whores for money.

    With women in their 20's, it is going to be tougher. They tend to be attracted to older guys. My 23 y.o friend has encountered some frustrating problems. A girl ask her his age. He says "23" and she says "Wow. you are young, I'm 25." He's like "WTF?"

    But anything is possible as long as you maintain your frame and you act mature. If a girl says you are young, I would tell her "Well, you look very matured for your age. I figure you could keep me interested for a while."

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Hey!

    I've been gaming pretty well in school. I am a high school student.

    However, I'm running out of people to game at school. So, I am now sarging and building up the skill level to game adults.

    My question is, is it possible for a teenager to game an adult in her 20s or 30s? Not only is it possible, is it likely?

    I can see that this is a limiting belief, and I know I should get rid of it... IF its worth it. Do you think that I can do it?

    I know that I can do anything if I believe in myself, but something seems so different and new about the very idea of a high school kid getting dates with REAL women (not high schoolers).

    Thanks, forum! Love ya all...
    honestly, you're in a gold mine! high school is full of young superficial girls who don't know even the simplest of our dating tactics. older woman are going to be a little more difficult because it will be harder to relate with them when they have a job and bills while you live off of your parents, and go to high school.

    however, you shouldn't limit yourself to just girls at your school, try going to high school sporting events and game some of the girls from the opposing school. (that way you can game more girls your age and not have to worry about ladies telling you that your too young for them)

    btw to answer your question " is it possible for a teenager to game an adult in her 20s or 30s? Not only is it possible, is it likely?"

    I would say that it is possible, but not likely. if you have an older brother or a bunch of friends who are college age you might be able to hang out with them and some of there female friends for a chance to bang one of them, but its not likely unless you really know what your doing.

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    So true. Meteora just brought up something important I forgot to mention. If you live with your parents, more often than not that is a HUGE dealbreaker when it comes to dating women older than you in their 20's and 30's.

    If women are wired to seek the most capable provider, then living at home with your parents goes against that. In fact, you don't have to be 17. You can be ANY AGE. There's something about living with your parents that undermines how they perceive your independence as a potential mate. It demonstrates lower value that because you are dependent on your parents and can't even take care of yourself, what makes you think you can take bring anything to the table to their needs?

    My recommendation is get a job and move out as soon as you can if you want to be in any serious relationship with an older woman.

    However, you can still get some bootie call from a middle age 30+ cougar. That's why you see so many older women with young guys almost young enough to be their sons.

    But if you are running out of girls at your school, my initial instinct would be to expand your prowling grounds to other schools through events. My recommendation is stick to high school girls AND enjoy the frickin moment before you outgrow them one day.

    Because once your high school days are gone and you graduate, it is GONE for good. You will never get it back. So make the most out of your experience.

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Damn I was just about to say the living at home thing was a deal breaker! Beat me to it lol!

    But I will add that if you game well and don't give them that info until later u may still get some girls.

    I mean if they see you are cool, and they know your age obviously they know u most likely live at home. It's almost a given. But don't limit yourself! No real life deal breaker exists unless you think it does imho.
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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Let me play the father figure here and hopefully teach you something. I'm 21 now, so this is straight from my experience not that long ago.

    First of all, yes, it is possible to game older women at a younger age. When I was 18 I dated a girl who was 27. She was amazing, one of the only women to this day I have seen as having wife potential. I was wishing my life away though. I thought I was too mature for kids my age so I wrote them off. Big mistake, I sacrificed a lot of good friendships. At the time I thought I was the baddest kid around, but when I finally realized that it would never work out with this woman I didn't have a whole lot left.

    Here's my advice.

    Enjoy where you are at right now. Master that and you will be the man for the rest of your life. Everyone will look up to you as somebody who can always make the best of the situation. You can't live in the future so don't bother trying. It's a fool's errand.

    There is this Tucker Max story where Tucker and his friends roll into a really lame party. So what did they do? They went out and bought a boatload of alcohol and brought it back and completely turned the party around. They made the best of the moment and ended up with a crazy story.

    High school is a once in a lifetime deal. I'm in college now, but it isn't worth rushing to get here. There will come a time when you will have no problem dating older women, but there will never be another time when you are stuck at school for 8 hours a day with nothing better to do than hit on girls. Take advantage of it.
    One last thing. High school girls are dumb. You can date or fark most of them multiple times and still maintain a decent reputation. Just play a solid game and don't kiss and tell. Bottom line, enjoy every day.

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    Quote Originally Posted by jesse.sachs View Post
    Hey!

    I've been gaming pretty well in school. I am a high school student.

    However, I'm running out of people to game at school. So, I am now sarging and building up the skill level to game adults.

    My question is, is it possible for a teenager to game an adult in her 20s or 30s? Not only is it possible, is it likely?

    I can see that this is a limiting belief, and I know I should get rid of it... IF its worth it. Do you think that I can do it?

    I know that I can do anything if I believe in myself, but something seems so different and new about the very idea of a high school kid getting dates with REAL women (not high schoolers).

    Thanks, forum! Love ya all...

    I'm also in high school and Im not good at escalating after I go up to the girl and say "hi I think you're cute and I just had to come say hi" ( usuall they smile and blush) what else can I talk about after that?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheGeneral View Post
    Let me play the father figure here and hopefully teach you something. I'm 21 now, so this is straight from my experience not that long ago.

    First of all, yes, it is possible to game older women at a younger age. When I was 18 I dated a girl who was 27. She was amazing, one of the only women to this day I have seen as having wife potential. I was wishing my life away though. I thought I was too mature for kids my age so I wrote them off. Big mistake, I sacrificed a lot of good friendships. At the time I thought I was the baddest kid around, but when I finally realized that it would never work out with this woman I didn't have a whole lot left.

    Here's my advice.

    Enjoy where you are at right now. Master that and you will be the man for the rest of your life. Everyone will look up to you as somebody who can always make the best of the situation. You can't live in the future so don't bother trying. It's a fool's errand.

    There is this Tucker Max story where Tucker and his friends roll into a really lame party. So what did they do? They went out and bought a boatload of alcohol and brought it back and completely turned the party around. They made the best of the moment and ended up with a crazy story.

    High school is a once in a lifetime deal. I'm in college now, but it isn't worth rushing to get here. There will come a time when you will have no problem dating older women, but there will never be another time when you are stuck at school for 8 hours a day with nothing better to do than hit on girls. Take advantage of it.
    One last thing. High school girls are dumb. You can date or fark most of them multiple times and still maintain a decent reputation. Just play a solid game and don't kiss and tell. Bottom line, enjoy every day.

    In my school it's basically every girl I talk to and something happens, kiss and tell.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    what else can I talk about after that?
    bud, you can talk about anything. high school game should be fairly easy compared to gaming anywhere else. all you have to do is befriend as many people as possible and talk to everyone. social proof is king in high school.

    any extracurricular activities will make good topics to talk about. when I was in high school all we would ever talk about was football,hunting, dirt bikes, teachers, girls, wild nights, and all the crazy shit that we did over the weekends.

    if your one of the popular kids, you pretty much have your choice of whatever woman you want. just remember, the more friends you have, the more dating choices you have.

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    Default Re: Can Pick-Up Work For Me?

    I'm going to go against what everyone else is saying here and say that gaming older women won't work out well for you. Simply put, you're too young. You may find that some are receptive, but it's going to be a very small number.

    I would focus my energy on gaming girls your own age, and using game on other people with no intentions of closing. If you do close an older woman, great! But I wouldn't go into interactions with any intentions of doing so.
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