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    Default Girl didn't reject, but also won't commit to date

    Basically, this is going to be one of those 'Where do I go next' kind of threads...

    Trying to keep it short, here is a quick paraphrase of my texts / attempts. Actual texts were much, much more playful, just want to give a gist of the pattern.

    Day 1 - after texting a bit
    Me: Ever been to [restaurant]?
    Her: Love that place, best burger I ever had.
    Me: I already had a craving, now that you mentioned the burgers my mouth is watering

    Next Morning
    Her: Sorry, I passed out last night
    Me: [No worries... blah blah... later on...] Well, we are going to satisfy this craving tomorrow night
    Her: Oh are we? lol
    Me: Yep at 6:34. Wear something [blah... blah]

    ... convo detours about what she's wearing, she never says yes or no

    "Date Day"
    Me: Get excited for tonight...
    Her (hours later): I forgot, I have a family thing tonight. Can we reschedule? Sorry... [blah blah]
    Me: Of course... [play it cool]


    So since then, I tried asking her what her schedule looked like and got no response for a few days. By then it was around Thanksgiving and her family was in town so I knew it would be bad to try to ask again. We'll text for like an hour or so ever few days and then it dies off.

    And here we are... I want to get something set up for this week, but I've already tried the "telling her" what the plans are and asking for availability. Do I even stick with the original idea at this point or come up with something else? How do I go about it now?

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    Default Re: Girl didn't reject, but also won't commit to date

    Something else. Dinner is never a good idea. Also, never tell when and where. She could easily legitimately have plans. Tell once you know she is available during that time. So, start by asking "What's your schedule like this week ?" She says her availability, then say "Cool, grab a drink [insert day/time] ?" or "Cool let's grab a drink [insert time] at [place] ?" Now, she's more likely to show up. Don't just throw a day and time out and expect her to be available.
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    Default Re: Girl didn't reject, but also won't commit to date

    Don't continue bugging her though. Ask a couple more times and if she doesn't want to go or keeps flaking then don't bring up the idea of dates anymore unless she does.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Girl didn't reject, but also won't commit to date

    sounds like you didnt make her horny enough or she doesn't trust you enough yet. happens all the time.


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