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Thread: Next-Morning Awkwardness... what do I say?!

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    Default Re: Next-Morning Awkwardness... what do I say?!

    First, that's a great rule to have and one I follow... Usually if it's obvious we won't be seeing each other again I go for it but if I want to see her more I won't sleep with her.

    As for how you ultimately handled this, you couldn't have done it better. Girls look to guys for clues as to how they should act after things like this. If you act like it's no big deal and just carry on with how things were, so will she. And who know, maybe you'll get another chance
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    Default Re: Next-Morning Awkwardness... what do I say?!

    So, just a quick update... I know it sounds ridiculous, seeing as I'm contradicting myself from a few weeks ago... but I guess I realized I wanted more than just to hook up with her.

    This very girl... I managed to invite her up for drinks, and I guess my lucky star was out there... Not only did we hook up that night, we're together now. It's been a month, and I haven't been happier. We both are.

    And I just want to say, if it weren't for the whole PUA thing, you guys, the community, PUA friends, I would have never made it. She was impressed by my confidence, I knew what to say, when to say it... I just blew her mind. It's still me, I'm not lying to her in any way, but thanks to all the little things I learned here, I managed to really rock her world when I needed to most. Thanks so much everyone...

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    Default Re: Next-Morning Awkwardness... what do I say?!

    Quote Originally Posted by theSkap View Post
    So, just a quick update... I know it sounds ridiculous, seeing as I'm contradicting myself from a few weeks ago... but I guess I realized I wanted more than just to hook up with her.

    This very girl... I managed to invite her up for drinks, and I guess my lucky star was out there... Not only did we hook up that night, we're together now. It's been a month, and I haven't been happier. We both are.

    And I just want to say, if it weren't for the whole PUA thing, you guys, the community, PUA friends, I would have never made it. She was impressed by my confidence, I knew what to say, when to say it... I just blew her mind. It's still me, I'm not lying to her in any way, but thanks to all the little things I learned here, I managed to really rock her world when I needed to most. Thanks so much everyone...

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    Default Re: Next-Morning Awkwardness... what do I say?!

    Bro,

    Should of done the deed when you could of! She most likely thinks you want a relationship because you held off on the sex. Between the refusing sex and what you said she now thinks you want more then you really want and is most likely scaring her away.

    Don't say your sorry, just act normal, and see how it goes. Don't look like a wimp by saying your sorry, your too good for that, but if you get in that situation then go all the way and act like it was completely nothing to you afterwords, because let's face it is, is completely nothing! Woman get to emotional, they think if we tell them we love that (or whatever you said) that we mean it and want to be with them long term. They just think differently then us.


    Quote Originally Posted by theSkap View Post
    Hi everyone, Been a while since I posted anything here… but I’ve always gotten amazing advice from you guys. here goes.

    So I’m a little at a loss here, because this has been happening quite often. Let me explain:

    The other night, my co-workers and I decided to throw a little party at one of our places. So we bought wine, beer, chips, and just had a very chill evening the four of us. (I’m the youngest one: 20. they’re all 25,26) I had to take the bus back home quite early because it was the last one. The co-worker who’s place we were at suggested that I could sleep on her couch. Sure whatever. So I stayed, and as the two other guys left, it was just me and her. We went out to buy cigarettes, and as we came back, she suggested I could sleep in her bed because it was more comfy.

    I really wasn’t expecting this. Hell she’s 6 years older, and she always call me ‘kid’ ‘shorty’ etc… but she’s way cute and why the hell not. It was pretty instant once we went to bed. Best make-out sesh I’d had in a while. I refused to have sex, because… well… I was drunk. I think if I hadn’t said anything, we would’ve.

    My question is this: the next morning was the most awkward shit ever. I was hungover, didn’t know what the hell to say. I woke up way early and couldn’t go back to sleep. So I kinda just sat there. When she woke up and made coffee, we were just sitting there in awkward silence. Apparently, I’d gone overboard with what I’d said to her when we were in bed (you know… not far from the ‘L word’ and such ) and it kind of freaked her out… I reassured her that I say that when I’ve had a few, but really I want nothing serious. She says she doesn’t want anything serious either. It’s been two days and she hasn’t showed up to work…

    Is this save-able?

    Thanks so much guys!


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