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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Right with you mate... the kiss close is always whats messing me up.
    but BadMedicine here totally solved it.
    thanks! I'll take those into account next time!
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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    YOKiTran is completely correct, the Kiss close is a stepping stone in each pick up, bt it's just that, a little step. If the girl doesn't want to be kissing you you can bet she will let you know with her body language. But the anxiety of the kiss close seems to be your sticking point so maybe you could try brushing her hair out of her eyes or over her ear, anything that allows you to touch her face, if you see no resistance or movement back, it is so on, simply lean in and go to work. If you are still unsure at this point, use the only good idea in all of Hitch and go 90% and let her come the last 10%, if you've done the compliance tests above, there is no doubt she'll be into it.

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    A few things here to avoid a k-close reject:

    1) Pick your targets: some girls are not receptive to a kiss on the first date, no matter how much attraction you've built. It takes a bit of experience to know when a girl wants to kiss.

    2) There is nothing wrong with talking about it first: I don't mean overtly saying so how do you feel about kissing me... no no no. Just introduce the topic in a more causal way. Like I was talking to a girl and she mentioned something slightly sexual... I responded with wow 'should I be afraid? you sound like the type who's just gonna jump on me the second we leave this bar! I don't work like that little missy, I'm a classy guy ; )'

    she did jump me once we left!

    3) When it goes wrong just push past it: If you have enough attraction and a little balls this will work. If you go for a kiss but you only get a peck on the cheek or a shitty effort... then carry on unphased and wait for an opportunity to throw in "well actually I was waiting for a decent kiss, ; )". this comment works a charm as many girls will see it as a challenge and be a little annoyed they haven't given a good kiss. Tone is very important here, it MUST be obviously cheeky and playful!

    4) A recent experiment: Recently i've been working on just telling a girl that she wants to kiss me. I do it by text and when we arrange a date I'll throw in 'maybe you'll even get that kiss you've been looking for if your very lucky'.

    I have soo much fun with this and the more they resist the further I take it. "well if you want that kiss that badly who am I to say no?" I just love being a little bit arrogant and cocky even if it gets the occasional rejection its part of the fun. I believe this works on a number of levels. 1) it makes her think about kissing you and also ensures she thinks of you as a sexual threat. 2) if you say it repeatedly and drill it into her head she actually starts to think she does haha.

    For those who think this is beta, it isn't. I never say I want to kiss you! Its always phrased as me telling her that she wants to kiss me! You must keep control of the frame for it to work. Never admit you want to kiss her until you actually do!

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    well.. just go on to that point and you will know if she likes it or not!

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Dude, just tell yourself that youre going to do this insanely dumbass thing even though you know its crazy and dumb to your brain. Say im gonna do it, what of it!

    Give yourself permission to be a dumbass sometimes

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    Smile Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe View Post
    Guys I need help. I can't get over the fear of kiss close. This is the second kiss close I lost grip of. How and when do I fark up? Usually when I think about kissing the girl. Every time I get that gut feeling that I want to kiss close I fark up almost instantly. I'm so worried about offending the girl or feeling awkward that I can't go in.

    do you guys have any suggestions on what I can do to counter this fear other than "just do it?" Is there something I can do that can short circuit that mechanism that's screwing up my closes?♦
    try visualising. Every morning just after you wake up (but try not to fall asleep again, maybe sit up or something), and every night as you're drifting off to sleep, imagine the perfect scenario happening as vividly as possible. Every now and then, imagine the thing not working, as if you were watching it from a distance on a tiny screen, in black and white. Then imagine the perfect scenario as if you're inside the big screen, and you're actually doing it, as vividly as you can. I did this and managed to get my first (almost) f-close ever recently, just on the second date with this girl! (and no, she's not just "loose", she told me she never goes this fast). So yeah, try that.

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    I find that my merely brushing your hand against her cheek for a a bit longer than necessarily, softly, maybe pushing her hair out of the way is a good indicator.

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Ignore the guys telling you not the be a pussy. They were pussies once, we all were, whether it was in 3rd grade or senior year. But we overcome and become badasses.

    More strategy will help your confidence.

    1) Kino escalate. Play with her hair. Notice her earrings and touch them. A more advance technique is to leave your hand there and look in her eyes like the idea to kiss her just magically appeared in your head.
    2) Check for signs she wants it. If she smiles and cocks her head, looks at your eyes separately, back and forth, looks at your mouth, bites her lip, all systems go.
    3) Take control. You can't hesitate here, or you'll lose her. One great way I saw on Keys to the VIP is to say "Now's the magic moment, are you ready? I'm going to lean halfway, and you're going to come in and it's going to be magical."

    Good luck and Godspeed


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