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  1. #31
    Nubbi Guest

    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Know what, fear of STDs is all good because the threat is real. But syph and the like are pretty treatable. And true, HIV is scary and you'd have no way of knowing if someone is HIV-positive or not... but again, it's just a kiss. Nobody's asking you to drink their blood or something. Lighten up about it already dude.

    Treat it like Approach Anxiety. The fear will be always there but the only way to overcome it is to approach anyway. So kiss anyway. I swear it rocks even if you barely know the girl and she's making all these wonderful noises. Haha.

  2. #32
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    Man.... its been WAY too long for a kiss... does any one know if it's okay for you to kiss a friend?

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    One very successful ploy have used in the past to get a kiss goes as follows:
    Note: You need decent attraction first.

    Now, look her in the eyes, and do all the cliche kiss maneuvering. Put a silly grin or you face and really ham it up. Do the whole, stroking the hair on the side of the face, the long deep look. Go in really slowly. When you are still aways away, just pause for a second, and say, "Nope, not feeling it." then pull back. It is really funny, and 90% of the time, the woman will literally force the kiss.

    There are several components to this. First it is funny, second, the corniness kinda jams her signals for a couple of seconds so that she doesn't know if you are serious or not. By then, you have already gone through the beginning maneuvers and started in on the kiss. Most of the time, she will decided (even if she might not have originally wanted the kiss), that since she let you set it up, it would be rude to not let you actually have the kiss. At that point, you pull out of the kiss. It is funny, and she all the sudden feels cheated (it is a kind of a neg). Now you have lost the silly grin, but you are looking into her eyes with real desire. If you have any attraction at all, and there aren't mitigating factors (her friends peering over her shoulder) the kiss WILL happen, and you won't have to do hardly any work.

    If kissing is this scary unknown for you, I suggest you take some acting. That will completely unromanticize the kiss for you. In college, I was in a play where at one point I had to swing a girl down and kiss her really fast. It was a full on tongue included kiss. There was physical danger in the maneuver because it was really easy to bonk heads or something. Also the director had never seen me act before, he didn't know that I was already okay with kissing on stage, so he gave this really horrible long speech how how kiss on stage mean absolutely "nothing". It wasn't awkward before, but damn, that speech was! I really liked the female actress, and wanted to hook up with her, but because of professionalism, wanted to wait til after the show (she ended up hooking up with a guy right before the show ended, so I lost out on that). Anyway, the point is that after spending two hours practicing that stupid kiss in front of the director and cast, with the director giving little directing tips for the kiss, over and over again, any fear I had of kissing a woman ever again evaporated. Perhaps acting would help you out?

  4. #34
    Coyote Guest

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    when we were teenagers we used to keep score for the night how many girls we kissed that night. Girls used to do the same for how many boys..... i guarantee you the chicks used to far outscore the blokes. a kiss is just a kiss

    when i was drinking i even had sex with a girl without kissing her. her mate told me i had so she and my mate could get together. i said i would as long as i didn't have to kiss her. during intercourse every time she tried to kiss me i would put my fingers in her mouth and she would suck them for a while. she was pretty off, and no i wouldn't have let her suck that. i always wash my hands BEFORE i go to the toilet

  5. #35
    Typhoon Guest

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    Haha. This reminds me of Pretty Woman, "no kiss just fark" pro, and I once role played with a girl doing just that. It was kinky in its own way but I prefer it if there's kissing.

  6. #36
    Coyote Guest

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    so do i.... this was no PUA stuff, at least not with any standards. i stopped drinking a year or so after that and god willing I never have to do that again

  7. #37
    Loner Guest

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    okay, well most of the problem isnt the kiss but the std from kissing... but today i solved it! I found 2 - 3 girls who look innocent and so ill try to sarge and do the k-close.... (but im also looking for anyone in pre-med now.... im taking the risk but looking for someone who can give me the logical proof i need to plow through pass the k-close.) so wish me luck

  8. #38
    Ridikulus Guest

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    Hahaha... and yet I know doctors and people in the medical field who are either HIV positive or have had STD. Ah well, go deal with your issues the way you see fit dude. Just make sure it's done and dealth with. Life's too short my friend. Too deym short.

  9. #39
    SpringBreak Guest

    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Did this with a girl I was gaming last night. We're really having fun though and talking about movies and I just thought to say, "Hey, seeing as i've only met you, I certainly wont be asking you to marry me. But how about we practice our wedding kiss right now, even if we don't end up together?"

    Well, i'll be damned but she bit it and we did! Haha.

  10. #40
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Quote Originally Posted by SpringBreak View Post
    Did this with a girl I was gaming last night. We're really having fun though and talking about movies and I just thought to say, "Hey, seeing as i've only met you, I certainly wont be asking you to marry me. But how about we practice our wedding kiss right now, even if we don't end up together?"

    Well, i'll be damned but she bit it and we did! Haha.
    wow nice! I don't know, this line is kinda sketchy for me because if there's insufficient rapport built this would be troublesome.


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