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  1. #51
    huanga1 Guest

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    Kinda skimmed the other posts but here are my thoughts on the kiss close.

    If you know you're good at something, then you won't hesitate to do it. If you're good at basketball, you'll jump into a game and play with anyone, and know that you'll have fun. Same goes for kissing. If you're good at kissing, then you'll jump into a makeout with anyone, knowing that you will have fun.

    I think your problem is that you don't think of yourself as a good kisser. If you thought to yourself "I am an awesome kisser and girls like to make out with me." chances are you'll actually go for the kiss.

    The only reason you're not kiss closing is because you don't go for the kiss. Simple as that.

  2. #52
    Coyote Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by huanga1 View Post
    Kinda skimmed the other posts but here are my thoughts on the kiss close.

    If you know you're good at something, then you won't hesitate to do it. If you're good at basketball, you'll jump into a game and play with anyone, and know that you'll have fun. Same goes for kissing. If you're good at kissing, then you'll jump into a makeout with anyone, knowing that you will have fun.

    I think your problem is that you don't think of yourself as a good kisser. If you thought to yourself "I am an awesome kisser and girls like to make out with me." chances are you'll actually go for the kiss.

    The only reason you're not kiss closing is because you don't go for the kiss. Simple as that.


    i like that huang1
    i gotta extract that one, bounce her to another location for a kiss. not good in her workplace in most timings.... another one today who i have been getting cutesy with; she was mirroring me and gliding in and out and pursing her lips and her boss came right in our game and sorta looked then he was embarressed and she was a bit on the back foot. she asked me to come back.

    would prefer not to snog her at work either. both these babes need me to kiss them though and i aint got no reservations about that. i just dont want some babe to lose her way of paying rent if i aint gonna be the rescuing knight etc...

    its much simpler after rapport is built and we have established some sort of 'relationship' that i say hey lets grab a drink or a coffee or something later in the evening....

    there are some nice bars and cafes around to get closer with these babes

  3. #53
    MisterXanderson Guest

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    You can do the kiss test, play with her hair a little then lean in and look at her lips, if she smiles thats the greenlight. OR on the flipside, if you've been slightly suggestive and touchy from the first handshake (or cheek kiss) then it becomes natural and expected. Obviously some girls aren't that forward but at least u can filter out early on which girls want to play, that will save you time. Also that depends if ur a direct kind of alpha male who sets the frame early on in a relationship. So this kissing thing, its a question if ur a guy who likes escalation vs pulling the sex forward in the very beginning.

  4. #54
    Coyote Guest

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    Kino and eye contact. all the things that build rapport. plus i keep coming back to kino which grows on her and i hold eye contact so she knows when i speak to her

    hugging and kissing as greeting and goodbye are a regular thing and making sure i put the kino inbetween. hold with my eyes and draw her in and moe her out or move myself in and out. tease and use eyecontact.

    there is no substitute for kino

  5. #55
    J-Rex Guest

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    Didn't read all the rest so I may be repeating. But a few tips.

    - Don't wait til the end of a date to try and kiss her. Too much pressure, especially on you. Find a time to do it before that point.

    - Try and give yourself some form of privacy so you don't feel eyes on you.

    - Use Kino. Look at eyes, bite your lower lip slightly, brush her hair back from her face, and move in. Preferred go to move.

    - Keep It Simple Stupid. Less is more...to an extent, but tight lipped is much better than slobber tongue. A little soft biting on her bottom lip is always big. Use her hands to. Run them through her hair, over her cheek and neck, down her arms. And keep it short at first.

    - Oh, emulation. People kiss how they want to be kissed. Pay attention to how she kisses.

  6. #56
    Coyote Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Rex View Post
    Didn't read all the rest so I may be repeating. But a few tips.

    - Don't wait til the end of a date to try and kiss her. Too much pressure, especially on you. Find a time to do it before that point.

    - Try and give yourself some form of privacy so you don't feel eyes on you.

    - Use Kino. Look at eyes, bite your lower lip slightly, brush her hair back from her face, and move in. Preferred go to move.

    - Keep It Simple Stupid. Less is more...to an extent, but tight lipped is much better than slobber tongue. A little soft biting on her bottom lip is always big. Use her hands to. Run them through her hair, over her cheek and neck, down her arms. And keep it short at first.

    - Oh, emulation. People kiss how they want to be kissed. Pay attention to how she kisses.
    that's great j-rex.

    i got free from one i have been tracking square with for a month or so. so i am ready to go and get things further with a new one. always have something warming up and it feels great to have learnt what i did right and what i did wrong with the last one.

    on this list i can see where i went wrong in parts... yep KISS is right. and this one i got lined up i am gonna move in on early cos the last one i was playing from behind constantly so to speak and i agree that getting off on the right foot is the way to go and that means i get that kino early and just continue what works as i escalate increasingly

    ooh i got some good things ahead...

  7. #57
    borderbreaker Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bare_Legs View Post
    Lolz, next time, don't spend so much energy on a girl you're not really having fun with And I guess not kissing her is good, 'coz if she liked it and you really didn't, then she might expect more or something and you'll be in deeper trouble.

    that's exactly right.

  8. #58
    JoshTurnerAM Guest

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    Kissing is supposed to happen after you've built some genuine attraction and comfort. You probably hesitate because you doubt the fact that she's attracted to you.

    When you know the girl is attracted to you (ran good game, received IOIs, had a lot of fun with her, sucked her in with your awesomeness) kissing her is a lot easier. You're in charge, and you know she wants it. So take back your power: know and believe that she'd have a great time hooking up with you. That way it'll be her missing out if she rejects you. But don't be an arrogant dick either.

    Of course, in order to get there, you need to work on yourself first. Be Alpha, have the kind of life that a woman [or more ] would love to be a part of. Be attractive!

    Faking confidence is one way to go, but actually loving your life and genuinely being confident takes things to a different level.

    So make your life awesome and attracting women, kissing them and getting laid will be a breeze. They have a spidey sense telling them if you're just another pussy or a real man :-)

    Good luck!

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    I've never had that Hollywood moment on the first kiss where you "just know" it's the right time on some primal level. However, I know how to create that scenario for the woman I am with, and how to test the water ahead of time before going to the kiss. My point is, if you wait until it "just feels right", you will either convince yourself that it isn't the time, all the time, or you will miss many great opportunities to make it the right time.

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    Default Re: fack another failed kiss close

    Quote Originally Posted by Coyote View Post
    I can't work em out mate. Sounds like you need to escalate and I find it difficult unless I see her face to face and we are free to Kino. I have found that relying too much on electronic communication aint cool and I run into trouble. Gotta be physical feeling.

    Alright guys I am now convinced. No kino.... no ?>(&$% try having it without kino....

    I saw this chick again today that I can't get that kiss close on whilst she works.... but damn, she talks to me about her personal life and friendships and her mates who I worked on independantly; she has given me dirt on them now....

    We are sharing what we want to do in regards to things like travel and study and she is agreeing with me more and more.

    I am using False Time Constraints each time as she will keep me there all day if she can. She talks to me like a respected male friend and whilst my wing reckons she goes out with footballers, she does to a point, she seems to respect my wisdom or mind on things. Smiling as soon as she sees me.... et al, but I still feel like the last guy getting the lol txt messages....

    Is she unimaginative and boring? Do I need to escalate by getting her to bounce out to a new scene? It is making that flower under the windshield gesture I guess cos otherwise it will remain lol etc... til it just fizzles out because neither of us are getting what we need from the 'friendship'.

    I know I gotta extract her from the scene to another place where kino is cool and gonna happen
    I'd be careful mate it sounds like you are getting dangerously close to the friendzone and you are letting her use you to keep her entertained at her boring job...

    Maybe use a Freeze Out that only applies to her workplace or something like that?


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