i lived up to believing myself that i AM indisputably THE BEST kisser around, and that whichever girl is interested in me has to prove herself that im not wasting my time. much like Steve P. with sex.
Overcome this anxiety with over-confidence. hell you may just be great at it to some of the women you sarge.
Perhaps start by kissing, just little pecks, on the hand or ear or neck. This will escalate seduction and make the lip kiss much easier.
Stop focusing on the kissing, try to stimulate her interest in you. Try seducing her or kissing her on other parts of the body this will make thing easier for you.
What I did to get over my fear was count backwards 3..2..1.. and go. If you've stimulated her, just brush your hand across her face and bring it towards yours. Majority of girls will never pull away.
if youre bailing on yourself at the KC, it's probably becuase you're not getting used to touching this particular girl. i usually recommend that guys start with light toughing of arms, shoulders, legs so the girl gets used to you touching her and things just escalte naturally.
but in your case what will work for you is you get accimated to touching so you're comfortable kiss closing her.
don't make yourself jump off the deep end. walk to the deep end little by little and get used to it.
I almost think we have a case of oneitus. Listen bro, you have to remind yourself...isn't your name 'Mystery Wannabee'? Well then if you are striving to be a PUA you should be striving to get many kisses. If you go in, and she says no OH WELL! Go find another girl to kiss and let her watch lmao. Remember my friend, this is about having fun, go out and meet women. There are TONS of them. I have failed a RETARDED amount of times. The times I don't, make up for it though, trust me.
Practice practice practice that's all I say
Don't hate The Player hate the Game