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    Default Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    Hi !

    I need some advice to deal with that girl so here is the rundown:

    Last night (Europe) I was with my an ex-GF just for a drink and she wanted me to meet her friend because she said she was interrested to meet me. So we hanged out as 3 and had a drink.
    I saw some ioi when we were talking and laughing each other. I went to the restrooms, then the HB went too and I came back and I asked my ex how does she find me ? She said to me that she was attracted to me. So after a few hours we went each others home because we had to get up early and I took her phone number (she hasn't mine yet).

    Here am I wondering what to text her, I didn't text her directly after the last night date. It is the first time I have a planned date with a girl I've never seen before that an ex-GF proposed me.

    So I don't really know how to deal with her like should I directly text her to going out and have a drink with her or make a little text game ?

    I know she is gonna go to work in 4 hours ( she works in travel agency). She is open-mind, she is confident, kinda smart and I also know she is looking for a relationship.

    Thanks for the advices guys !

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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    She wanted to meet you. Your ex-gf said she was interested. Your ex-gf introduced you two because she WANTED TO MEET YOU. These aren't subtle hints, these are big slaps in the face. You should directly text her and set up a meet. Text game isn't necessary in this scenario and could hurt you, not help you.

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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    ya i agree. just meet up with her soon and get escalating.

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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    Thanks guys !

    Here is some news with that girl I think I farked up.

    So I went straight to the point and asked her to meet up. So we had a date at 6.00 p.m. We went to a winter event in Brussels (Belgium). Ice skating, light show, and walking around + having a few drinks in different bars. I do believe we shared a lot of emotion, she said she was happy to be with me there. I did touch her few times, teasing and so on. But I didn't see at any moment, an opportunity to get that kiss.

    So after I gave her a drive to her home we listened to music, having fun. We laughed and I kept teasing her. And when we arrived at her home, we just kissed on the cheek and she said like " see you soon " .

    I feel like I could have done more.. Actually this girl is weird I don't really get her. I know she is attracted but I can't see this opportunity to move on with her. She sent me a text the next day saying it was a great night.

    Don't really know what to do right now. I think I didn't qualify her enough. Or maybe I am just too hasty ?

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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    David D talks about the seducer personality. It's one wayto make yourself a regular guy +... Like that date u had was pretty good because she was compliant. But you have to actually seduce her without being afraid.

    If she was into u, just kiss her. Don't think about it. Whisper in her ear that she is daring you to kiss her. See how she reacts. If she plays along, do it later when she least expects it. Amp it up because she already likes u.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    KinoKinoKino! Go through some threads here, find some routines and use them. On first dates, I always run some game on HB, with massive Kino included. Teasing her is great, but if you don't take it further , don't get sexually, go for a kiss - it just became weightless. Be cocky and funny, get sexually.
    This girl is clearly attracted to you - but if you don't take it to the next level, you will be friendzoned.

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    Default Re: Just met a HB an ex GF introduced me

    Hey guys So here is some news !

    Thanks for your help btw! I still need some advices here..

    So we got another date she asked me to spend last sunday with me I agreed but I wanted to get that kiss and maybe more before. So we went to the cinema on saturday (new Scorsese , epic ! ) then we hanged out to get a few drinks, I did a lot of Kino, I got a kiss. So I asked her to go to my home because it was easier so we could leave home and go straight to visit the city on tomorrow.

    We went home, drinking champagne and we went to bed, kissing, escalating, then she said like " you can touch me but you can't have it all". I was a bit drunk so I let it go (my bad) and she slept on my chest.

    We have slept only 3 hours then we went to visit a city, but I was REALLY tired as she was.. we weren't that close I didn't touch her all day she just took my arm to walk around the city. I know I was mistaken because after that I was mad about myself to be so lazy. We have spoken of past relationship, I spoke about myself..something I don't usually do with a girl I like..
    Then in the afternoon I gave her a ride home, and we just kissed a little.

    So this week we have keep in touch but it wasn't like before you know it was a bit cold, less messages, smileys or fun.. She changed her way to answer my messages. Though she said to a friend it was a good night & day.. But I asked to get her out last week and she refused (lot of work). So it's been a full week without seeing each other.

    I know I did wrong because I could have more of her during the night and be more cocky & funny on sunday..I think something was broken there. So I'm mad about myself and I can't stand not seeing her. I'm not sending multiple message or something but I feel like I don't know how to make the thing happens. So if you have some advices I'll appreciate.


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