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Thread: Starting from the beginning, again.

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    Default Starting from the beginning, again.

    When I was younger, pulling women was second nature to me. I then stupidly decided to get into a relationship that lasted quite some time, I'm in my early 20's now. I have lost all confidence when it comes to approaching random girls in clubs and public places, and even when I do get chance the conversation always dies off and comes to a boring end. Any tips will be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Starting from the beginning, again.

    Appreciate the journey. It's a long road but worth it. You're lucky to have had the experiences you did. I started as a virgin when I was 23 in game. Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: Starting from the beginning, again.

    When building up a conversation 'LEAVE at the peak of it !! When everyone is really pumped up !! That will leave the conversation at a 'Wow, he was a really nice guy , I wouldn't mind hanging out with him again !' Or a ' I really like him he keeps me laughing ' , instead of ' Well he kind of cool, I might want to get to know him. You have to leave when she's most interested so she can 'Stay interested !! Msg me if you or anyone has any questions !!

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    Default Re: Starting from the beginning, again.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sickster View Post
    When building up a conversation 'LEAVE at the peak of it !! When everyone is really pumped up !! That will leave the conversation at a 'Wow, he was a really nice guy , I wouldn't mind hanging out with him again !' Or a ' I really like him he keeps me laughing ' , instead of ' Well he kind of cool, I might want to get to know him. You have to leave when she's most interested so she can 'Stay interested !! Msg me if you or anyone has any questions !!
    That's pretty much my philosophy as well. Always be the one who end it, and end it always at the top.

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    Default Re: Starting from the beginning, again.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sickster View Post
    When building up a conversation 'LEAVE at the peak of it !! When everyone is really pumped up !! That will leave the conversation at a 'Wow, he was a really nice guy , I wouldn't mind hanging out with him again !' Or a ' I really like him he keeps me laughing ' , instead of ' Well he kind of cool, I might want to get to know him. You have to leave when she's most interested so she can 'Stay interested !! Msg me if you or anyone has any questions !!
    This has the start of what you need to do, but it needs to be taken further. Do this x amount of times every time you go out (you can decide how many, anywhere from 3 or 4 to 10, even 15!) BEFORE you start actually gaming and trying to close girls. This will do multiple things for you.

    1) Girls will wonder why you left when the conversation is good. They'll think they did something wrong. Then, next time you're out and see them, immediately talk to them! But again, leave before anything happens. It will again get her thinking that something is wrong. Eventually, she'll melt into your hands just by seeing you and, if you want her, it's incredibly easy to pull the trigger.

    2) It will get you into the proper mind set of talking. Think of it as a warm up to sports - you don't just go out and play, you warm up, get moving around, get into the right Mindset first. It will help you later on to approach and close the girl that you've had your eye on all night.

    3) You will get invaluable practice with conversations. By talking a lot, you'll learn how to keep conversations going. Maybe now you can keep a conversation for 3 minutes. Practice with 15 people, maybe you'll bump it up to 4. Another 10, you can talk for 7 or 8 minutes with someone. Before you know it, you can have a girl talking to you for an hour without her ever being bored or wanting you to leave her alone.

    Everyone has to learn how to converse. Some are more natural than others but everyone has to learn the art of it. So get out there and practice!
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

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