Re: I can not for the life of me get in the friend zone
You are overthinking this thing dawg. First off you NEVER EVER want to be IN the friendzone and girls put you there when they reject you not yourself. The goal is to be IN her radar as potential mates. But I understand your reasoning of befriending a girl IE friendzone to work your magic on her but this reverse physchology won't work on them. For starters you want to work your magic on them and I understand this is scary at first but no guts no glory and if you play it safe the rest of your life with women you will be sterile.
Women respond to bravado, desperado, hopeless romantic, heartless, alpha male, bad boy role plays but they don't respond to nice guy, beta male, butlers, male girlfriends role plays at least not very well. Everytime I tried the nice guy card I got shafted however when I took a risk on a stunner I got major cool points from them. Nice Guy does work but only through select periods and if your permenant frame is nice guy you will never challenge her, test her, stand up to her, flirt with her, you will always be flirting when she is flirting but never going the extra mile to find out what's underneath the emotional exterior. At least from what I can tell when we learn to let go and act desperado not desperate (a attractive form of non-neediness but pretending to be needy). When you are actually needy I have noticed girls shut you down everytime but when you go Alpha they go nuts and the "pretending to be needy" works like a charm. So work your magic and go all out. But girls mostly only respond to brave and risky role playing not some weak sauce game. But remember Alpha don't overdo it always use Nice Guy as your default frame but then remember to break the Bad Boy card, Desperado gambit, Bravado moments, etc this is what causes serendipity by being your default self (nice guy) then switching frames when appropriate when you encounter resistance or she is just not feeling you. These switches or "flipping the script" makes all the girls go crazy.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.