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Thread: bad at creating new conversation topic.

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    Default bad at creating new conversation topic.

    I really have a sticky point with continuously conversing with women and then switching from topic to topic.many times I run out of things to talk after me and the girl are done talking about one topic then it's just the awkward silence that hangs between us. I need help to stop that and always have a constant conversation topic.
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    Default Re: bad at creating new conversation topic.

    Since you're such a regular on here, I assume that you have seem the tactic of "nouning" and how to employ it? If you haven't I suggest you look it up. More likely than not you're already doing it, but not consciously. Once you understand how to do it, what I suggest is that you employ it consciously. Whenever you're talking with someone in any capacity--be it on the web, text, in person gaming, or just in person with someone at the grocery store you have no sexual interest in--try to open as many conversational threads as possible. The more threads you have open the easier it is to keep the conversation going. And the beauty is, if one thread ends, you can jump back to another thread that you've already opened.
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    Default Re: bad at creating new conversation topic.

    Some great advice about creating and maintaining a conversation in this thread.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/3...versation.html

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    Default Re: bad at creating new conversation topic.

    Hey marvilo, definitely agree with dave. Seems like a great thread on how to have a natural flowing conversation. Lots of great resources on this forum

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    Default Re: bad at creating new conversation topic.

    I always have funny pics in my phone if I am really trying to find something to talk about. You can just say that you were thinking about something u read online earlier in the day. Then be like oh wait I might have it in my phone and pull up the pic. Could be a dumb pickup line, some quote it saying etc...

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