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Thread: The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

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    Default The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

    Hey guys. There is one sh!t test in particular I have a problem overcoming. It's the "I have a BF line". I was wondering what you guys say to this line. I know that at least 50% of the time it's total b.s. and I still get stuck! Everyone gets this when approaching women and it seems to be the #1 shit test women tell men right away. I can't seem to get past it! Any other sh!t test I usually pass with flying colors but this one freeze's me almost every time! Does this line mean that you are doing something wrong with your approach or is this the first thing women throw out there to see if your legit? What have you guys said to pass this test?

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    Default Re: The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...chnique-9.html

    On page 9 of that thread, TheDuke has a good "Yes ladder" to sort of counter the "I have a BF" shtick. There's also another "Yes ladder" on page 1 by Xaiver.
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    Default Re: The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

    While I stand by that yes ladder as being effective, I worked on it quite a while ago in my development. I really think this shit test is easier to deal with than that or basically any boyfriend destroyer makes it out to be. Especially if it truly is just a shit test and she doesn't actually have a bf.

    My way of dealing with this now is just to be honest with my own feelings.
    "Cool. I'm seeing other people too. But let's be honest with ourselves here. Life is short, we're both young, and things change quickly. I mean, what if we'd be perfect together, but instead of discovering that I walked out of here without getting to know you, all because you're seeing someone today who might be gone tomorrow?"
    It works because it keeps your value high, it instills a sense of loss in her, and makes her resent her bf just a little bit. Be careful though, you have to make sure you have built attraction before you pull stuff like this. If you're just going for a Number Close, a simplified version can be employed:
    "That's cool. But things change quickly and who knows where we'll be tomorrow. Why don't you give me your number so we can stay in touch?"
    The yes ladder and more in depth BF destroyer techniques can be employed if it's a stubborn case. But most cases just require you to say something--anything--that doesn't make you sound like a total tool.
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    Default Re: The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

    HB: "I have a Bf."

    Me: Why do you bring that up? Oh I get it. Your totally tempted to be with me. (Kino her see how that goes). Don't worry. I won't tell anyone."

    Or

    "So do I! Oh man I bet mines better than yours. Let compare notes!"

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    "Whoa whoa whoa... I didn't say I wanted to be your BF! I barely know you. I am not that easy honey."
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    Default Re: The "I have a BF" Sh!t test.

    Not something you really need to be too concerned with. For instance one time a cockblock told me my target had a BF right before the N-Close. I said "girls ditch their BF's for me all time." Worked marvelously not only did she give me her real number but she waited by the door for a potential f-close like she waited by the stairs for the N-close. I didn't pull the trigger due to saying bye to the bartender which killed the Set. Also this comment came from Red Robin as I was sitting there one time when a girl ditched her BF and he left without her and she was literally turned around staring at me hardcore inviting the approach but I wasn't in approach mode that night.

    The thing to remember is to think of a comeback. I just got back from the Philly place and a girl was looking at me the entire time with her BF right there. She had her knee pointed towards me which I know is an ioi because I look for IOI's while sarging. I did nothing obviously but I feel really sorry for the guy since the girl was just sitting there watching me like a movie and like talked to her BF like 30% of the time but not engaging him at all. I feel like such a piece of meat sometimes and wish I could pick up on this kind of stuff more so in field to up my game. But I use dhv stuff like that. My next comeback for the BF rejection will probably be "well every time I go to a restaurant girls ignore their BF's for me." Plus there are plenty of girls who won't give you the BF thing so 50% it's just the opposite however women almost always sh!t test guys so if not this then something else. Get past it when you can. If the BF is not present or calling your phone or known to you then free game. Game as normal. Most of the time they lie so you never know if they do or don't. Girls jump ship all the time just go with the flow, be natural, and try ONE comeback for in field and up to 4 texts via phone.
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