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Thread: Can't go in..

  1. #11
    SpringBreak Guest

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    Just be prepared to keep her engaged after you Isolate her or you're never going to have a second chance. Think brief and sweet initially, unless you're sure you can enchant and escalate in so many hours.

  2. #12
    HotRod Guest

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    Indeed, if you take it too long, there's a tendency she will be bored. Think of interesting things to talk about, so that on her part,it is all worth it to break from the group and get a lone time with you.

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    culturedpearls Guest

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    Maybe you can also establish rapport with her friends and indirectly appeal to them for help in getting the girl alone. Once, a simple "Know what? I really like your friend but I don't think she's interested enough in me. She must already be seeing someone." got a girl's friends to take a longer time at the bar that I got several minutes alone with the girl. Enough to make sure I'm sitting with the girl the rest of the night and I ended up bringing her home later.

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    Default Re: Can't go in..

    You can't Isolate until there is attraction. If you "thought" you had attraction, but she never gives you an opportunity to isolate her, chances are that you screwed up and she doesn't want to be alone with you. Another possibility is that her friends are playing defense against you. You need to open the whole group and not just the girl you want, in this case.

  5. #15
    bloodDiamond Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by gunsnglory View Post
    You can't Isolate until there is attraction. If you "thought" you had attraction, but she never gives you an opportunity to isolate her, chances are that you screwed up and she doesn't want to be alone with you. Another possibility is that her friends are playing defense against you. You need to open the whole group and not just the girl you want, in this case.
    Better involve the group before isolating her. Play with the group. Get involve with them and let them be comfortable in you. yes, there is a great possibility that a group would be defensive and you can have difficulty in getting through towards the girl. Invest in a great deal of attraction, not just from the girl but also from the group. From then, you can penetrate the group and get into the girl.

  6. #16
    SpringBreak Guest

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    Girls can be quite rabid when they're being protective of a friend so good luck dude in opening them all up. Just don't go desperate and needy, just relax and appear to be having a good time with everyone, just hanging out. Be interested in what the others have to say and laugh at their quips and whatever. Because like what culturedpearls said, they can be extremely helpful too.

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    slasherguy Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpringBreak View Post
    Girls can be quite rabid when they're being protective of a friend so good luck dude in opening them all up. Just don't go desperate and needy, just relax and appear to be having a good time with everyone, just hanging out. Be interested in what the others have to say and laugh at their quips and whatever. Because like what culturedpearls said, they can be extremely helpful too.
    Nice point. You must know how to be a good listener not just a good speaker and tries hard to flock the herd around you. You are to enter a group and you are a stranger to them, it's best to stay in touch with the group by going along with them.

  8. #18
    Coyote Guest

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    I had a bad experience with a girl I had been seeing a little while and I asked her if she wanted to come somewhere with me on the day for her birthday. I got a very emphatic No which totally baffled me as she was very forward about saying yes to everything else.....

  9. #19
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coyote View Post
    I had a bad experience with a girl I had been seeing a little while and I asked her if she wanted to come somewhere with me on the day for her birthday. I got a very emphatic No which totally baffled me as she was very forward about saying yes to everything else.....
    seems like a flake which is weird since you seem to have built some rapport with her. Perhaps you could lead her into your activity instead like 'hey, your birthday is coming up soon! We should go to X togther!'

  10. #20
    Typhoon Guest

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    Coyote, did she give any reason why? That's weird behavior from a girl you've already been seeing but heck, who can really spell girls? Anyway, are you still seeing her?


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