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Thread: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

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    Hello all,

    I've been reading tons of material recently and I'm absorbing it all like a sponge on cocaine! Thing is, there's almost too much information to digest at once. But I completely understand that, at the end of the day, all that matters is your inner game. With that unlocked, it shouldn't matter at all how you come across because the confidence from inner game will carry you through to the N-Zone... or is that F***-Zone in this case hehe.

    In the months and years to come as I master my inner game, I'd like to start with some more basic approaches until the whole thing sinks in. The only thing I know for a fact about my personally, and therefore my strengths, is my high level of energy and positivity when I engage people.

    I learned this because I do professional tutoring to large groups of students. And I'm extremely engaging, interactive, and sometimes funny... no one can fall asleep in my class. Even if I'm teaching Accounting. Haha! I tried a bunch of methods in the field with meager success. Since I tried just being the guy in the classroom, I've gotten much more positive results

    So finally here's my question: Out of all the styles that exist (cocky funny, mystery method, etc.), which style should I begin to explore that takes advantage of my strengths?

    Thanks a lot community! You guys are great.

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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    Whatever "style" comes most natural to you. Guys that are successful at cocky/funny didn't wake up one day and say "Hey! I'm gonna be cocky/funny!", and then get laid 3 times a week by bullshitting their way through it. Females have a natural thing I like to call a 'Congruence Radar'. If you aren't being yourself, and you are putting on a show, they will sense it, and you will come off as an AFC and a fake.

    Read into game etc. but don't change who you are naturally. Use it more as a guidance tool and work more on building confidence around who you are to begin with.

    I'm naturally the confident nice guy, with a bit of cocky/funny cause that's just the way I am.. And I know that girls like it, because I'm confident. After a few drinks I go pretty much straight cocky/funny. The point is I never at any point try to be anything I'm not, and that's why it works and that's why women are drawn to it.

    Just my two cents Good luck.

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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    Quote Originally Posted by RandomHavoc View Post
    Hello all,

    I've been reading tons of material recently and I'm absorbing it all like a sponge on cocaine! Thing is, there's almost too much information to digest at once. But I completely understand that, at the end of the day, all that matters is your inner game. With that unlocked, it shouldn't matter at all how you come across because the confidence from inner game will carry you through to the N-Zone... or is that F***-Zone in this case hehe.

    In the months and years to come as I master my inner game, I'd like to start with some more basic approaches until the whole thing sinks in. The only thing I know for a fact about my personally, and therefore my strengths, is my high level of energy and positivity when I engage people.

    I learned this because I do professional tutoring to large groups of students. And I'm extremely engaging, interactive, and sometimes funny... no one can fall asleep in my class. Even if I'm teaching Accounting. Haha! I tried a bunch of methods in the field with meager success. Since I tried just being the guy in the classroom, I've gotten much more positive results

    So finally here's my question: Out of all the styles that exist (cocky funny, mystery method, etc.), which style should I begin to explore that takes advantage of my strengths?

    Thanks a lot community! You guys are great.

    Honestly the high energy hank moody type of style is great for seduction or Liam McRae's very sexual side is good too.. It's just all comes back to your confidence in your technique and style. Also let it come natural to you. Also learn from the pros and you might learn your type of style as well
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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    which style should I begin to explore that takes advantage of my strengths?
    the best style is your own personal style.

    what works for other guys won't necessarily work for you. you have to try new things and find what works well for you and what doesn't.

    and btw
    my strengths, is my high level of energy and positivity when I engage people.
    be careful not to fall into the trap of being too entertaining (yes it is a potential problem) you have to be engaging, but you want to give the girl a chance to tell you her stories and jokes. as a good rule of thumb only talk 50-60 % of the time that way she has a chance to talk as well. believe it or not entertainers can seem quite overbearing to have conversations with.

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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    You'll find that the elements of game are all the same at a 40,000 foot view. There's a lot of differences as you start analyzing more. The game needs to fit your personality and who you are. Learn the fundamentals then adopt the style that works for you.
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    I would recommend Mystery's book "Mystery Method" because he says it will make you years ahead of the learning curve (I bought it and think it gives the foundation and techniques which are crucial to my development cycle right now). But yeah other than that I would recommend not mixing business with pleasure. This is a general rule I have. I don't talk about my career in Set as it kills the interaction everytime and becomes me qualifying myself rather than how it should be, her qualifying herself. Now when they ask me what I just tell them I am Pirate on a quest to find nice chests and booty or some variation. Remember most this world is ruled by boredom so generally I don't date girls I work with as the marriage would be like "How was work?" "Oh yeah we work in the same place." I would rather date someone from a different world for good reason even if it is a little harder to find initially. Hot women are hard to find unless you know where to look (Summer!!). Having done a hundred sets so far I know first hand good Inner Game is all about qualifying them while maintaining an element of mystery. You don't want to bear your soul to a stranger as nice guys finish last so you got to be a bit of a prick. Being a sensitive prick will break down any iceshield! But try nice guy on an iceshield and you will crash and burn hard.

    Once you get into the thicket of it your own style will develop. I am working on refining my technique but I usually always create my own openers on the fly and use some canned material to warm up or get started. Good Inner Game is about being about to sarge properly (10 sets in a 2 hour period) but not rushing it and pushing every set to the limit (plowing). sarging is very effective as my record is 4 numbers in 30 minutes with no resistance at a local outdoor bar. I have gotten numbers by plowing too and after being rejected I put my tail between my legs and run away and then come back with a witty new comeback and they buy it everytime. I have gotten many girls to like me after they rejected me by plowing. Plowing is basically re-opening the Set after ejecting on a rejection and then re-opening the target with new found confidence and a witty comeback. Sometimes I opened a girl 4 times before she finally liked me! I give them periods of random distance of sometimes a couple of seconds, minutes, etc. They are often laughing at the witty comebacks. Absence makes the heart grow fonder is true as when I leave a total flaming Set where I just got rejected I plan on coming back after opening more girls and they tend to flip their emotions at that point.
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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    All about natural flow - you can't pull off cocky funny if it appears to be too rehearsed. Need to find your niche and personalize your style to what works and comes natural to you.

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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    Agree with all of the personalization stuff. Although you can soak up all of the information, techniques, and so on of all of the pros, in the end it is their style, their voice. Using the variety of information out there, you have to develop YOUR own voice.

    I would also say to be careful with how you are going through this. You may be learning at a fast pace, but it is always a good idea to pace yourself and learn things as you go. When you blaze through material like that without giving as equal an amount of time to practice and implement it yourself, you tend to forget what you read. Your goal is not only to teach yourself the subjects at hand, but to also involve yourself and learn it as well.

    It's like what Benjamin Franklin once said:

    Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.
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    Default Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best

    I'm happy I posted here and to have gotten such great feedback.

    Enjoy the holiday sexy elves,

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