Re: Which Pick Up Style Suits Me Best
I would recommend Mystery's book "Mystery Method" because he says it will make you years ahead of the learning curve (I bought it and think it gives the foundation and techniques which are crucial to my development cycle right now). But yeah other than that I would recommend not mixing business with pleasure. This is a general rule I have. I don't talk about my career in Set as it kills the interaction everytime and becomes me qualifying myself rather than how it should be, her qualifying herself. Now when they ask me what I just tell them I am Pirate on a quest to find nice chests and booty or some variation. Remember most this world is ruled by boredom so generally I don't date girls I work with as the marriage would be like "How was work?" "Oh yeah we work in the same place." I would rather date someone from a different world for good reason even if it is a little harder to find initially. Hot women are hard to find unless you know where to look (Summer!!). Having done a hundred sets so far I know first hand good Inner Game is all about qualifying them while maintaining an element of mystery. You don't want to bear your soul to a stranger as nice guys finish last so you got to be a bit of a prick. Being a sensitive prick will break down any iceshield! But try nice guy on an iceshield and you will crash and burn hard.
Once you get into the thicket of it your own style will develop. I am working on refining my technique but I usually always create my own openers on the fly and use some canned material to warm up or get started. Good Inner Game is about being about to sarge properly (10 sets in a 2 hour period) but not rushing it and pushing every set to the limit (plowing). sarging is very effective as my record is 4 numbers in 30 minutes with no resistance at a local outdoor bar. I have gotten numbers by plowing too and after being rejected I put my tail between my legs and run away and then come back with a witty new comeback and they buy it everytime. I have gotten many girls to like me after they rejected me by plowing. Plowing is basically re-opening the Set after ejecting on a rejection and then re-opening the target with new found confidence and a witty comeback. Sometimes I opened a girl 4 times before she finally liked me! I give them periods of random distance of sometimes a couple of seconds, minutes, etc. They are often laughing at the witty comebacks. Absence makes the heart grow fonder is true as when I leave a total flaming Set where I just got rejected I plan on coming back after opening more girls and they tend to flip their emotions at that point.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.