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    Angry Is this a shit test?

    So one of the girls I am talking to has indicated interest before by making comments like I'm sexy and such and also wanted to go out on a date. Well I truly am a busy man and kept telling her I was buisy until the point where she was pissed and said "well, this is fucked up if only one of us is making an effort". Well, now that I do have free time (but do not have a car) I've offered a date several times, but then she will say some stupid shit like shes going to sleep when she gets off work, or that her car is to far away to get up and go pick me up. That right there is what I think is shit test number one. I have a couple girls I'm talking to doing similar shit and it is really starting to irritate the fuck out of me. Is this a shit test, and if so how do I react to this and move things forward?

    I have a second scenario that I'd also like some opinions on. The same girl that is the main focus of my last question, agreed to going to a movie if I arrived at her work right after she gets off (she works at a second hand clothing store that sells name brand clothes that I sometimes shop at) but with some crap saying that it wasn't a date. When I asked how she said "because you won't pay for me anyway, if you pay for me then its a date". I wanted to make it clear that she can't gold dig off me so I said that she can pay for herself and being there together is a date and that way if we end any sort of relationship there (I obviously used different words) that I didn't waste my money. This is a legit concern because I have a couple girls with a similar situation and if I had to pay for each of them I went on a date with I'd be losing $10 a pop when I only receive around $150 every two weeks for my paychecks (I'm still in school and only work 2 days a week). Is thgis a shit test as well, and how should I have responded?

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    first off, I hate reading the tile "is this a shit test" it makes me want to facepalm and shake my head...

    "well, this is farked up if only one of us is making an effort". Well, now that I do have free time (but do not have a car) I've offered a date several times, but then she will say some stupid shit like shes going to sleep when she gets off work, or that her car is to far away to get up and go pick me up. That right there is what I think is shit test number one. I have a couple girls I'm talking to doing similar shit and it is really starting to irritate the fark out of me. Is this a shit test, and if so how do I react to this and move things forward?
    what your deeling with is not a test. its this thing called "genuine emotion" she really wanted you and you showed dis-interest, this caused her to loose interest in you as she probably feels like she isn't good enough for you. now that you are more interested in spending time with her she is trying to get back at you and make you feel the way she did.

    she made an effort to be with you and you failed to reward it. what you are dealing with is something called "negative compliance" now she isn't going to do anything you want her to. learn from this experience, if a girl shows interest in you, you have to show interest back and make her feel like you want her as well. this is called "reciprocity" (mutual liking that is clearly communicated back and fourth) and it is very important to having a successful relationship.

    I have a second scenario that I'd also like some opinions on. The same girl that is the main focus of my last question, agreed to going to a movie if I arrived at her work right after she gets off (she works at a second hand clothing store that sells name brand clothes that I sometimes shop at) but with some crap saying that it wasn't a date. When I asked how she said "because you won't pay for me anyway, if you pay for me then its a date". I wanted to make it clear that she can't gold dig off me so I said that she can pay for herself and being there together is a date and that way if we end any sort of relationship there (I obviously used different words) that I didn't waste my money. This is a legit concern because I have a couple girls with a similar situation and if I had to pay for each of them I went on a date with I'd be losing $10 a pop when I only receive around $150 every two weeks for my paychecks (I'm still in school and only work 2 days a week). Is thgis a shit test as well, and how should I have responded?
    this is her trying to gain compliance from you. don't give in. she wants you to do what she wants. do what you can to do anything and everything your way, not hers. be strong and lead the way in everything you do. (especially dates)

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    Question Re: Is this a shit test?

    Do you think I'll be able to go anywhere from here? I mean it's weird as to why I'm confused as to her interest. She went from calling me sexy and "exactly what she looks for" to her laughing when I say something like I know you think I'm sexy. To add to the confusion, 2 days ago she was poking fun at me for buying a $160 pair of jeans (Rock Revivals; I ended up with a $300 paycheck for the winter break, so thats how I had the extra cash) saying something like "thats stupid, you know how many pairs of yoga pants you can buy" (she says she don't wear jeans because it makes her legs itch and she literally wears nothing but yoga pants). I responded to this by saying how sexy I think it is when girls wear Rock Revivals because it makes their butt stand out and makes it look so great. Then I think I asked her if she has a big butt and she said "I've been told" and then she literally offered to send a picture of it, and all I really asked was if it was with pants on or off and to which she eluded to it being a thong. She sent it to me. I'm undecided as to whether I'm looking for a relationship with her or not but I most definitely want to f-close with her and I know I can if I get her actually go on a fucking date with me. From here how should I go about getting her to actually go on a date (besides food, I suck at those)?

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    Do you think I'll be able to go anywhere from here?
    there's a possibility (especially since your in high school, you can get away with almost anything due to the girls lack of experience)

    Then I think I asked her if she has a big butt and she said "I've been told" and then she literally offered to send a picture of it, and all I really asked was if it was with pants on or off and to which she eluded to it being a thong. She sent it to me. I'm undecided as to whether I'm looking for a relationship with her or not but I most definitely want to f-close with her and I know I can if I get her actually go on a farking date with me. From here how should I go about getting her to actually go on a date (besides food, I suck at those)?
    you don't necessarily have to take her out anywhere if you see her all the time at school. just drop by and flirt with her a couple times a week and build more comfort. if she's sending you pantie pictures, she is definitely still hot for you.

    don't worry too much, just spend time with her and have fun at whatever you do together. keep teasing her and she'll probably fall right into your lap.

    she may not have much negative compliance, but for future reference always reward her interest with some interest on your side. always reward compliance with interest as well. if she were older (like in her 20's) she probably wouldn't be so easey.

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    Well we go to different high schools, she lives on the opposite side of town. I just met her when I was shopping at the mall and it turned out we were friends on Facebook so thats how we started talking. So we have to meet up for me to do anything with her.

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    Well we go to different high schools, she lives on the opposite side of town. I just met her when I was shopping at the mall and it turned out we were friends on Facebook so thats how we started talking. So we have to meet up for me to do anything with her.
    ok.... that will make things a little harder for you.... mainly because you have to have reliable transportation to go see her and you won't see her as often. you've got to be able to get her on a date (witch is harder than just hanging out at lunch or in class)

    my suggestion is that you confidently tell her you want her. go direct and see what happens. (that way if she's not interested you won't waste much time on her) if she says she likes you, then invite her out on a date. if she rejects you, don't take it personally. there are tons of other girls out there.

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    Just a little update, I just F-Closed this girl tonight in less than 30 minutes, we actually farked longer than it took me to get in her pants. I did have some LMR that annoyed me and made me want to quit but I got through once I started pulling her pants off. I now need to figure out how to make her not want a relationship but a FWB or something. If you give out that easy your not exactly girlfriend material.

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    I now need to figure out how to make her not want a relationship but a FWB or something. If you give out that easy your not exactly girlfriend material.
    dude, you're in high school. you can have a relationship with her knowing that it won't last. girls in high school usually are pretty easy to get into. they're young and dumb.

    just because she gave you sex easily doesn't mean she's not gf material.

    btw telling her you want fwb will only send her packing, just have a little relationship with her as long as she keeps farking you. its simple. you will hurt her feelings a lot less by having a relationship and then ending it, than you will by being fwb and her crying every night knowing that you are farking other girls.

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    I have another girl I'd prefer to be with. This is one of those girls that are all emotional and shit, I don't want to deal with all that again. If I date her I'll always have to hear about how depressed she is for no reason. I hate girls like that.

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    I have another girl I'd prefer to be with. This is one of those girls that are all emotional and shit, I don't want to deal with all that again. If I date her I'll always have to hear about how depressed she is for no reason. I hate girls like that.
    its high school, they're all emotional like that..... you'll probably have to deal with that with any girl you sleep with there lol

    btw are you farking this other girl you would "prefer to be with" ??? if not then you should be farking somebody...


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