So one of the girls I am talking to has indicated interest before by making comments like I'm sexy and such and also wanted to go out on a date. Well I truly am a busy man and kept telling her I was buisy until the point where she was pissed and said "well, this is fucked up if only one of us is making an effort". Well, now that I do have free time (but do not have a car) I've offered a date several times, but then she will say some stupid shit like shes going to sleep when she gets off work, or that her car is to far away to get up and go pick me up. That right there is what I think is shit test number one. I have a couple girls I'm talking to doing similar shit and it is really starting to irritate the fuck out of me. Is this a shit test, and if so how do I react to this and move things forward?
I have a second scenario that I'd also like some opinions on. The same girl that is the main focus of my last question, agreed to going to a movie if I arrived at her work right after she gets off (she works at a second hand clothing store that sells name brand clothes that I sometimes shop at) but with some crap saying that it wasn't a date. When I asked how she said "because you won't pay for me anyway, if you pay for me then its a date". I wanted to make it clear that she can't gold dig off me so I said that she can pay for herself and being there together is a date and that way if we end any sort of relationship there (I obviously used different words) that I didn't waste my money. This is a legit concern because I have a couple girls with a similar situation and if I had to pay for each of them I went on a date with I'd be losing $10 a pop when I only receive around $150 every two weeks for my paychecks (I'm still in school and only work 2 days a week). Is thgis a shit test as well, and how should I have responded?