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    Default friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    Apologies if this is in the wrong topic.

    A friend of mine recently got a new gf nice girl bit quiet can put that down to shyness. Turns out after new years eve pictures emerged she had a very cute best friend. Have asked my buddu about her told me ahes really nice 19 and single but wben I ask to be introduced to her he laughs it off like im just playing

    So thought id go out on a wim and mail her via Facebook somthing like this....

    Hi (name) it appears that now our best friends are now dating eachother its only a matter of tind before we would meet eacother so thought it jump the gun and say hi now.

    Anyone got any better ideas to make it beyter or even a different opener completely

    Cheers

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    Default Re: friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    Don't be overeager. If you know it's only a matter of time before you meet her just wait til then.

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    Default Re: friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    Never ends well this if you choose to pursue it. Nothing stays private and you can find yourself in a conflict of interest. Example, if your mate f*cks up somehow I.E. cheats. As a mate you will want to conceal this from his Missus and from the bird you're chasing. Not saying this will happen, but it's potentially there when you're in this situation.

    That aside, you may have already messed up here. The message you sent comes across as needy and some what uneasy. No offence just saying. If anything wait until the both of you are introduced then take it from there. It seems less forced and a more natural way of initiating contact.
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    minislim82 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    Thanks for all the feedback dont worry I havnt sent any message yet wanted afew opinions first. Now its been laid out for me I can see it better and waiting is the best option

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    Default Re: friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    No, no, and no. You don't want to go FB dude that is low value. FB is for people who know each other (like BF & GF). FB is very low value and hitting up girls there I don't know proves very unsuccessful. If you have comfort then yes but not a means of gaming a chick.

    Low value, scarcity, and desperation apply here. Remember girls can sense this and play on your emotions so don't go there. Abundance, abundance, abundance. Go to the Bars, Clubs, Water Parks, Holiday Events, and Outdoor Malls during Summer and guaranteed you will be so swamped by so many chicks your scarcity Mindset will be no more. You don't need to put your try hard hat on. When you go out sarging there is so many numbers you are rolling in and dates you are going on you NEVER have to rely on FB. This means you don't need to be a low value guy who tries to meet chicks through friends. You can meet them through your own means. Plus relying on your friend's social proof is pretty weak too since he would have Social Proof but you would be the low value guy using your friend. Trust me Summer is where it is at. You get so many girls there you will be so worn out you will never worry about random chicks again. Granted I ain't gaming any broads right now. But when Summer comes I will be rolling in like 30-60 digits dawg. Scarcity will always come back to bite you in the rear.
    101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.

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    Default Re: friends girlfriends hot mate. ..

    Yeah dude. If you were regularly meeting girls in public, you wouldn't need this girl. Grab your sack and start approaching people everywhere, and you'll start rockin' an abundance Mindset.


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