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    Default Invite a college student out

    I met this girl on the street, I talked to her, got her number. She is a freshman in a university in my city. She once came over to my home. I came my room to get Japanese learning books. 10 days she borrowed 300 dollars from me, she said that she broke a glassdoor in her school so she has to compensate. She said that she would repay me by depositing the money to my bank account.

    My question is, how can I ask her to come to my place again or how can I invite her out?

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    Default Re: Invite a college student out

    Wait what, what did you do at your room? I wouldnt borrow that sort off money to someone I just met. You shouldnt put so much effort and intrest to someone who hasnt done anything for you. You should reward her instead or ask for something in return.

    Are you sure you arent in friendzone? She might be using you. Problem with your situation is that she has your money and herself that you need but she has no reason to see you. Develop some dhv and make her want to date you. I would just use direct approach and ask her for coffee or maybe to have few drinks or better yet, to house party. I wouldnt invite her straight to place to have sex put that just me.
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    Default Re: Invite a college student out

    Yea, that part about loaning the $300 has me extremely concerned. The only time I ever load out money is when I know the person incredibly well and when I am positive they will pay me back. That was just a stupid move all together in giving her money.

    Asking her out to do something is going to take time and patience. You need to build attraction and rapport with her, and you need to get things into the right frame where you can ask her out on a date.
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    Default Re: Invite a college student out

    Damn son, sounds like 2013-2014 exploitation...

    $300 gone...some girl pulled on you.

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    Default Re: Invite a college student out

    Go meet another girl from the street and this time hold it!!.Peace
    She may like you but bad frame has been set.

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    Default Re: Invite a college student out

    1 month ago, she came to my room to get Japanese learning books. 2 weeks ago she borrowed 300 dollars from me.

    How could I turn down her "borrow money" request?


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