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    Question What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    We all have our own demons when it comes to meeting and attracting women. What is yours?

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    I tend to forget 'steps' such as, getting the hell out of C&F and getting down to business. I'll often get caught up in having fun w/C&F & forget that that's not the end of the line.

    Also, I miss a lot of attraction signs very early on and won't be 'sure enough' to say something bold. There was one particular girl at a mall store that was clearly 'down' but I botched it b/c I was 'unsure'. Thinking back I should've said something like "are you flirting with me?! You probably do that to all the cute guys don't you"

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Miko View Post
    I tend to forget 'steps' such as, getting the hell out of C&F and getting down to business. I'll often get caught up in having fun w/C&F & forget that that's not the end of the line.
    I wouldn't worry about the 'steps' so much, but yes... you do need to escalate.

    A great quote a close friend of mine told me:

    "Guys are the gas, girls are the brakes" - Ron aka Play Date

    Quote Originally Posted by Miko View Post
    Also, I miss a lot of attraction signs very early on and won't be 'sure enough' to say something bold. There was one particular girl at a mall store that was clearly 'down' but I botched it b/c I was 'unsure'. Thinking back I should've said something like "are you flirting with me?! You probably do that to all the cute guys don't you"
    Definitely. Try this for me. ALWAYS assume that she is into you. Even if she doesn't show it, pretend in your mind that she just told you how hot you are and that she would love to hook with you. Have that attitude with all girls you meet...

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    I definitely try not to go too 'by the book' but I think the Mystery idea is helpful for us 'engineer types' noticing where you're screwing up. I had a huuuge problem with skipping 'qualification' b/c once they showed attraction I just ate it up and never really pulled out of them a 'reason' why i DID like them, I just did b/c they were hot & liked me which is a bit needy.

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Miko View Post
    I definitely try not to go too 'by the book' but I think the Mystery idea is helpful for us 'engineer types' noticing where you're screwing up. I had a huuuge problem with skipping 'qualification' b/c once they showed attraction I just ate it up and never really pulled out of them a 'reason' why i DID like them, I just did b/c they were hot & liked me which is a bit needy.
    A great line for qualifying a girl is the three reasons line. I think I learned it in one of Style's phone calls.

    "Ya know, after talking to you, I've decided there's three things I like about you. One is the way your nose wrinkles up when you smile (or some sort of neg). Two is the fact that you have ambition (or something genuine about the word's she has said. Definitely cannot be her physical appearance.) And the third, well, that's a secret." Then smile. Never tell her what the third thing is, no matter how many times she asks.

    As for me, my biggest sticking point is my ability to communicate. I speak well and I listen well, and that's the impression I like to leave with women. I just need to work on transitions better. I get way too stuck at certain points in the game and have trouble leaving them.

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    For me, mys sticking points for women is usually making a good opening lines. Though there are times that I am successful on it, but it bugged me when I mess out especially with a hot girl. Is there any rule or some quick tips on this? Thanks...

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    Quote Originally Posted by royalflash View Post
    For me, mys sticking points for women is usually making a good opening lines. Though there are times that I am successful on it, but it bugged me when I mess out especially with a hot girl. Is there any rule or some quick tips on this? Thanks...
    I've always like the "comment" idea as opposed to a question. Something that doesn't "require" an answer, just an observation about something interesting going on around you. It's more indirect and if she DOES respond it's pretty easy to read her reaction and if it's good you'll get a bit of momentum out of it. It looks less like you're trying to pick her up and more like you're just 'friendly' and less needy since you're not waiting for her to answer, you just commented on something and if she's not friendly she can just walk off otherwise she'll chat you up a bit.

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    I haven't failed the approach in some time, A2 has been a real achillies heel for me though.
    Last edited by sh3pherdd; 12-30-2009 at 07:39 PM.

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    I was able to step through opening, attraction building and such usually when I first meet the women. I can Number Close at times too (assuming these are girls that I'd see again [eg:classmates]).

    However, my sticking point is Kino Escalation and being able to continue our conversation after our first one.

    Example:

    Everyone usually begins asking about 1) Nationality 2) where they work/go to school 3) general family questions 4) What they do for fun 5) occasional stuff related to times of the year (eg:christmas) 6) gossip about teachers/boss.

    On the second conversation, I feel as if these topics are no longer valid and I'd run out of things to say. I've been successful with throwing the relationship topic into the convo and even elicit the girl into telling me whether or not she's been taken but then it just stalls.

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    Default Re: What is your biggest 'sticking' point with meeting and attracting women?

    One of the sticking points that I have when meeting up or going out with women would be looking like a dumb ass and get rejected because of inappropriate opening line. Although, I got success in making opening lines, there are times that I blow up.


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