I want to clarify the difference between inner game and outer game and talk a little about how the two affect each other.
for starters, outer game is what you say and do when you are around woman. think pickup lines,flirting, teasing, testing, challenging, etc.....
inner game is all about you're attitude. think about the difference between thinking of the glass being half full vs. half empty.
now think of this phrase "know thyself and know thy enemy"
think of "know thyself" as inner game, and think of "know thy enemy" as outer game.
outer game comes from knowing what to do when your advisory trys to put you in a tough spot (like shit tests) and having appropriate responses to most things she can throw at you.
inner game comes from not allowing those blows to your ego to affect your willpower to succeed.
when the two come together it is really something to behold.
both inner and outer game affect each other.
when you feel more confident, you take more chances and thus see more results witch then causes you to feel more confident and take even more chances and get even more results. this is known as a positive feedback loop.
once you get into the swing of things, that feedback loop happens over and over again as long as you keep getting out of the house and sarging.
the better your inner game is, the less outer game you will need to succeed.
for instance here's an example of a reel convo I had with an HB 9 who was all by herself at a club.
me; hey, what's a pretty girl like you doing at a place like this, can't you find a nice normal guy?
her; does that mean that you're not a normal guy?
me; haha, there's nothing exciting about being normal, I gave up on trying to be like that a long time ago.
her; you're such a loser (teasing)
me: sure I am, and that's why I hang out with girls like you.
her; I guess we can be losers together lol
me; so what do losers like to do for fun besides getting drunk and dancing at the club?
her; blah, blah, blah
we ended up dancing for a while until her girlfriends showed up and took her home cause she was really drunk by the end of the night.
my only regret was that I didn't get her number.
inner game is a powerful thing. it feels amazing when you stop worrying what others think about you, and instead think about whether or not they're cool enough for you.
you cannot lose that frame that you are the shit and nobody's going to convince you otherwise. when you truly believe in yourself, that's when things will start to fall into place.