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Thread: outer game is but a reflection of inner game - meteora

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    Arrow outer game is but a reflection of inner game - meteora

    I want to clarify the difference between inner game and outer game and talk a little about how the two affect each other.

    for starters, outer game is what you say and do when you are around woman. think pickup lines,flirting, teasing, testing, challenging, etc.....

    inner game is all about you're attitude. think about the difference between thinking of the glass being half full vs. half empty.

    now think of this phrase "know thyself and know thy enemy"
    think of "know thyself" as inner game, and think of "know thy enemy" as outer game.

    outer game comes from knowing what to do when your advisory trys to put you in a tough spot (like shit tests) and having appropriate responses to most things she can throw at you.

    inner game comes from not allowing those blows to your ego to affect your willpower to succeed.

    when the two come together it is really something to behold.

    both inner and outer game affect each other.

    when you feel more confident, you take more chances and thus see more results witch then causes you to feel more confident and take even more chances and get even more results. this is known as a positive feedback loop.

    once you get into the swing of things, that feedback loop happens over and over again as long as you keep getting out of the house and sarging.

    the better your inner game is, the less outer game you will need to succeed.

    for instance here's an example of a reel convo I had with an HB 9 who was all by herself at a club.

    me; hey, what's a pretty girl like you doing at a place like this, can't you find a nice normal guy?

    her; does that mean that you're not a normal guy?

    me; haha, there's nothing exciting about being normal, I gave up on trying to be like that a long time ago.

    her; you're such a loser (teasing)

    me: sure I am, and that's why I hang out with girls like you.

    her; I guess we can be losers together lol

    me; so what do losers like to do for fun besides getting drunk and dancing at the club?

    her; blah, blah, blah

    we ended up dancing for a while until her girlfriends showed up and took her home cause she was really drunk by the end of the night.
    my only regret was that I didn't get her number.


    inner game is a powerful thing. it feels amazing when you stop worrying what others think about you, and instead think about whether or not they're cool enough for you.

    you cannot lose that frame that you are the shit and nobody's going to convince you otherwise. when you truly believe in yourself, that's when things will start to fall into place.

    METEORA

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    Default Re: outer game is but a reflection of inner game - meteora

    Very good post. One thing I've noticed from personal experience is that if you have good inner game you automatically pass shit tests. It's not something you even have to think about, you just respond in the correct way.

    I'm sure allot of guys have similar experiences as I do. I seem to be on a roller coaster with women. I either have 2-4 that want to be with me at the same time, or none. This cycle has been very consistent for me the last ten years. What I've realized is that the times I'm at the peak, I feel really good about myself and my inner game is awesome. It's the positive feed back loop Meteora is talking about. The problem is that I end up dating one of them and when it ends I don't go back out and start talking to other women right away. My inner game takes a hit and I stop with the positive feedback loop.

    If my inner game was strong enough I would always be at the peak, and so would you. That's why I believe inner game is the most important aspect of being successful with women.

    One thing I've used successfully to improve my inner game and get back to the peak is by positive self talk. Telling yourself good things about yourself and how good you are with women on a daily basis really helps your confidence and inner game. You really can change your attitude through positive affirmations if you stick with it!

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    Default Re: outer game is but a reflection of inner game - meteora

    If my inner game was strong enough I would always be at the peak, and so would you. That's why I believe inner game is the most important aspect of being successful with women.
    no, you don't want your inner game to always be at its peak. if nothing affected you at all you wouldn't care about anything or anyone, you would be a psychopath. there are some things that should upset you. having good inner game is not about never falling down, but rather about getting back up as quickly as possible when you do get knocked down,as well as not getting knocked down so easily.

    however, you are right that positive self talk has a huge impact on self confidence/ self esteem. the positive feedback loop is based on the idea that getting results will increase your positive self talk and get you believing "I can" rather than "I can't".

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    Default Re: outer game is but a reflection of inner game - meteora

    Appreciate this post meteora. I like that inner game and outer game go hand in hand. Meaning you can improve inner game by focusing on outer game until you get results which boosts your inner game which boosts your outer game, etc etc
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