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    Default I'm afraid of being smiling

    We should always smile when a girl looks at us, or even before she looks at us, right? But I'm afraid of being smiling for no reason, because I'm afraid that people will think that I'm a weird person(because I smile for no reason.). Please help!

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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    You're thinking too much.

    CONFIDENCE.

    When you have it, you're relaxed.
    When you're relaxed, you'll smile when it's appropriate.

    If people think you're weird, so what!!?
    You have to stop caring about what other people think about everything.


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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    T-Mal is on the money. Put it this way, nobody has the time to judge you because most people are too busy judging themselves which is exactly what you're guilty of. Stop being critical of yourself and learn to accept your skin. You should see me man, I used to laugh with a closed mouth because I was afraid to show my 2 large front teeth. These days I smile and laugh so much that I plan on capitalising this situation by selling my front teeth as advertising space!

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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    Don't be afraid. I am a person that is ALWAYS smiling. I used to have all kinds of girls in high school come up to my sister and tell her they thought I was cute and ask her why I smiled all the time. Women notice this allot. You come across as a happy guy. I've smiled allot my whole life and people have thought I was weird but I don't care. This last semester I had a class with only 11 people in it. Some of the guys would comment on my "creepy smile" but guess what, by the end of the semester I was the most popular guy in the class. Smiling makes others feel better!

    I've even had people at party's try to fight me because I'm smiling the whole time. Guess what, they look like a total tool bag when they say "why the hell is he so happy". You get the picture? It doesn't matter what they think.

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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    Agree with everything being said above - people love happy people because they want to be around them and see what makes them happy! Smile all the time and watch the world change
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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    So should we smile non-stop from the beginning to the end during an interaction? When should we smile and when not?

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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    To be honest, I don't smile all day long. I'm just not that type of person, I don't feel comfortable smiling. But that doesn't bother me. When I approach a girl, of course I smile, and during the interaction, I keep smiling. But on a shitty long day while I'm on the bus, I just can't keep smiling. Maybe I should, but it won't make me feel better. I don't believe in astrology, but I'm a Twin according to that, and that's just what kinda person I am: during sarging, no matter if daygame or nightgame, I'm smiling and extrovert, but on a casual grey day, I'm introvert. I see what's the point of smiling, and if you are capable of it, and it makes you feel better, do it. If not, don't do it. And don't overthink it. Approach girls with smile, but you don't have to always smiling.

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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    Smile when you feel like you should smile.
    Don't force it... it just looks creepy.

    Seriously, it should be a natural occurrence. Don't over-think it!


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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    If a situation is uncomfortable, smile. If it's good, smile. If it's nothing, smile. It can only help.

    Even if you're the guy that "smiles too much." That's a good thing
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    Default Re: I'm afraid of being smiling

    Well it's like this. I was on the way to get my 1st tattoo today and I parked cuz getting to this fast food restaurant was a nightmare so I parked and started walking. Standing there in my sweater with my shades a nice SUV rolls up to the stop light and I am standing there on foot ready to cross. Just feeling the breeze.

    Super hot classy chick just looks over and gives me that look "you are a sight for sore eyes" and stares me down hard. I just acted tough. Anyway there's a saying "pics or it never happened". So instead I should have smiled and had fun with it and took her pic. Now that would have been epic. Next time I am walking down the street and some chick blurts something out or does something like that I am going to snap a pic and post it on FB. So I should have had fun with it. The key is especially when you are in a hard set with a girl jumping down your throat that is a great time to be smiling cuz it will just break her heart.

    Also I don't go around smiling but let it come naturally. I don't approach a set smiling unless I feel like coming in high energy or just messing around. I never make myself. I just remember to have fun and smiling comes naturally. You want to put all your attention to your Inner Game cuz putting attention on your body language, smiling, or what other people think will kill it. When your attention is towards your Inner Game and blasting out a good opener your body language will mirror a positive reflection of yourself.

    I had an awesome night one time in the Club going approach crazy and some dude comes over to me at the bar and breaks out this huge creepy smile. I didn't say a word but I knew he saw me approaching HB's as I was approaching the bartender when he came up. He just sat there next to me trying to say something but I blocked him out and talked to the bartender while he sat there next to me in awe. So do you think if I cared what people thought some guy would envy me like that? But sometimes I care for instance like what happened today so I just need to break out of my shell more when I am not out sarging.


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