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    Default Should I check to see if the date's still on?

    Last Friday I asked a girl out. She said she had to go somewhere but that we could go out next friday. Now it's Thursday and she hasn't brought it up since. Should I text her now and check to see if it's still on, check with her tomorrow to see if it's still on, text her tomorrow to see if it's still on or do nothing?
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    Default Re: Should I check to see if the date's still on?

    Text today. Text: "Hey rockstar- how's your Thursday ?" or "How's your Thursday ?" whichever makes more sense for where you've been at so far in set with her. Don't get more creative than that message.

    Next, ask "What's your schedule like this weekend ?"

    Do not say "Still on Friday?" if you haven't actually solidified a time/location to meet. It will sound weird to her. In your mind, things may be on. In her mind, hanging out was just a suggestion until everything is set in stone.

    If she is still available friday, say "Cool grab a drink Friday ?" or whatever you were going to do.

    Save yourself a lot of hassle by not getting creative with messages and having long messages about random silly stuff that the old PUA books will tell you to do.

    Also, don't say "Let's meet at 6:03" or any weird random time. Say "how about 6pm ?" or "6:30pm" The other stuff is weird.

    Don't know if all of this applies to your situation. Trying to save you from the mistakes I've seen a lot of other guys make when setting up dates.
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