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Thread: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

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    Question 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    When a woman is together with another woman and I approach one, talk to her and after some time include the other one, I often get the line "you know we haven't seen each other for ages and would like to spend the time together" sometimes they add "without you".

    If I met a friend again that I haven't seen for a long time and I could only spend a few hours with him to talk, I wouldn't want a stranger to interrupt this either.

    Problem is, this happens all the time with 2sets. Whenever I say "Alright, I see you are with your friend, why don't we exchange numbers and meet for coffee" I always get a "no I don't want to"-reply, because we didn't spend enough time together.

    I have two choices:

    a) not approach female 2 sets
    b) approach them and overcome the "we haven't seen us for ages" line to spend enough time for a solid close.

    What is your take?

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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Don't know if this'll come as creepy but, gracefully eject after that line. Then, come back after couple mins and open with something like: "Wow guys, I haven't seen you for ages! How have you been?"
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Made me smile. I want to try this one.

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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Peter - you are most likely showing to much interest towards the girls when you open them - try opening them and not expecting a response.
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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    It has something to do with your approach. Without seeing, I can't more descriptive, but odds are you are being creepy, approaching incorrectly, and not building attraction.
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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Try engaging both of the girls at once. Get them both involved in the conversation so they don't feel the one-sided affection that comes with Direct Game. I would also say that not showing as much interest and getting better at just being entertaining while speaking with the flow is essential.
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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    I disagree Swagman............. .

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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Preston View Post
    I disagree Swagman............. .
    You ask a question, and then you disagree with the answer?..

    Alrighty then, could you explain why you disagree with me?
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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    If I met a friend again that I haven't seen for a long time and I could only spend a few hours with him to talk, I wouldn't want a stranger to interrupt this either.
    That part is BS. If a HB that looks like she can pose for Maxim magazine walks up to you and tells you she likes your shirt, I'm willing to bet all of sudden, she will be your new best friend. Same applies, if you are a confident and charming guy, it don't matter. The error was in your approach and it could be numerous things. What you say, how you say it, your vibe. CDharders said that chances are you are approaching with a creepy vibe. If you are getting blown out alot with the same line, you might want to look into that.

    Problem is, this happens all the time with 2sets. Whenever I say "Alright, I see you are with your friend, why don't we exchange numbers and meet for coffee" I always get a "no I don't want to"-reply, because we didn't spend enough time together.
    You will never ever close this way. No attraction was built. It shouldn't even gotten to this point.

    I have two choices:

    a) not approach female 2 sets
    b) approach them and overcome the "we haven't seen us for ages" line to spend enough time for a solid close.

    What is your take?
    Until you are ready. A.
    Approaching two sets are for PUAs who are pretty advanced. There is more things to learn. Such as disarming and winning over the mother hen and getting her approval, keeping a balance of conversation so no one is left out, etc, etc. There's some good in-field videos on youtube on how to open 2 sets. Go watch "Keys to the VIP" and you can see how some plays are done right and what not to do. The judges even makes sports like commentary and it's hilarious. It's a whole new level of play.

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    Default Re: 2 sets who claim to haven't seen each other for ages

    Peter, we can only speculate how the set went wrong as there isn't too much info on how you opened and carried the conversation. Like most have said, it could have been your approach or not building attraction later in the set.

    Go indirect as it is, statistically, the best approach and less likely to give the creepy vibe once you're calibrated enough and work on building attraction later on. Since it is a 2 set, you will need to Isolate them eventually so I recommend getting a good wing or merging the set with another so her friend won't feel neglected once you isolate your target.

    Don't get caught up if that sounds too complicated. Focus on one thing at a time and get good at that. Then move on to the next step.

    1. Indirect Approach
    2. Build attraction
    3. Isolate

    Good luck!


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