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Thread: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

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    Default How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    Hey so I got out for the first time in a while last night and did 5 approaches 2 of which lead to a pretty good convo. Unfortunately neither went anywhere, the one girl was there with her bf and some friends, the other I got AMOG'ed for the first time when i stopped talking for a minute and this guy came in and stole my set lol. One of my approaches in particular went pretty badly. I tried opening this HB at the bar and she just completely ignored everything I said and pretended like I wasnt there pretty much. How do you typically react to that? I kind of just laughed and was like really? and just walked away lol.

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    You really just need the right mentality. When I go out I show everyone respect and treat them as equals but when someone isn't reciprocating my energy then they deserve none of my attention and I will be sure to let them know that they don't deserve my time. For example I was at Doolins last night, an Irish bar downtown, and I opened a three set consisting of older women. I came in with really high energy but at a comfortable level. I got nothing from them at all and they were being really cold and rejecting. At that point I basically said, "you guys are boring, have fun being boring!".

    In the case of being AMOGed, you need to AMOG right back. My non-PUA friend was talking to a girl and her boyfriend basically dragged her away and shot him the stink eye. At this point I went up to her and told her she was the most beautiful girl in the entire bar, I gave her a twirl, a kiss on the cheek and then got her to curtsey for me. At this point the BF was furious, I casually walked away and waved at her boyfriend. YOU are the alpha male and you cannot allow others to take that role from you. A simple solution is to basically just remove the target from the problem. Tell her to buy you a drink or maybe go to a different part of the venue. The guy who just came into the set will look like a weirdo if he tries following a set that he just joined. That being said, you need to get rid of him before he builds enough comfort to be allowed to stick with you guys.

    Good luck out there!

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    Laugh.Laugh. Laugh. I always just laugh it off too!

    Not every girl will appreciate your suaveness. She didn't matter before you met her so she won't matter post rejection. Just a random who lost out :P


    My friend and I got constantly rejected each time in the beginning and I tell you, rejections make the funniest stories!

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    Lol Flow, you kissed a girl that was at the bar with her boyfriend? That's ballsy.. I would have been pretty steamed too if I was him.

    Just laugh and move along. I make sure not to try too hard when I open, and in the same regard, not it let it stifle me one bit if a girl is a bitch. It's her loss. I usually just ask what her name is, which some guys would say is a no no. It works for me.

    It's more about how you are speaking and your demeanor than what you are actually saying. Remember how awesome you are, she is lucky you are talking to her.

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    Haha so would I! But when someone is throwing off the "talk to my girlfriend and I'll break your legs" vibe, then I just really like farking with them.
    "You know what my dream for this summer is? To have all the girls that you and I have farked this summer out on the SS Vagina."
    "That is the dream. It'll be one big mess of bad decisions and failed relationships."
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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    thanks for the responses guys. Yeah I figured there wasnt really much I could do except just not let it get to me, I actually did find it kind of funny. Flow, as for the AMOG thing, he came out of no where! I was just looking away for a minute not trying to be talking non-stop and also see if she would start asking me questions and give some IOIs, but I turned around for a minute and boom he was chatting her up lol. I was like damn, that happened fast.

    I also couldnt really talk too much to get her attention back because of how loud the damn music was at this place. That deterred me from trying to hop back in, plus the guys I was with were ready to hit another bar and we were about to leave anyway. I am just at a point where I am trying to just get comfortable opening and get rid of my aa, so I wasn't concerned at all where the interaction went, just trying to open now and see where it goes basically. I just was really surprised how fast that happened, and just like wow, this guy just stole my set, I literally looked away for probably 30 seconds lol. And othello, I agree lol I have only had a couple bad rejections which as much as they may suck at the moment, they are pretty funny when looking back.

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    Lol Flow, you kissed a girl that was at the bar with her boyfriend? That's ballsy.. I would have been pretty steamed too if I was him.
    @twentynine - Nah, 29, think nothing of it. If it was on the lips, then that is a different story. My girl let's herself get kissed on the cheeks all the time because she is friendly.

    The coolest part is knowing that despite those all kisses and guys fawning over her, at the end of the night, she is going home with you.

    Oh I thought I share this. Someone actually did do this to my ex. Kissed her on the lips and dissed me next to her. It was some drunk jewish guy (wearing the skull cap). You know what I did? I walked behind the guy, tapped him on the shoulder, when he turned around, I kissed him on the lips, and told him "I'm taking back that kiss." LOL.

    Then quickly grabbed my stunned GF and walked off before he had the chance to say "What the fvck?!"

    My gf then said "I can't believe you just did that!" I then negged her by telling her "No wonder you let him kiss you. He is actually a pretty good kisser! But nahh, I wouldn't fvck em."

    Not too many guys got the balls to pull that off. But my balls were bigger that night.

    So remember 29, if a guy ever kisses your GF. Kiss em back. LOL

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    Default Re: How do you respond/act when hb completely ignores your open?

    I like that, Mortal. I like that a lot.

    I will absolutely definitely do it, if ever put in that situation. I promise.


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