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    Default Girl didn't qualify herself at all

    So I was talking to a girl in a club and had opened, negged, told a dhv story i came up with and went to qualify her but got nothing . So i asked "Is there more to you than just a pretty face?" and she just responded "I got nothing"

    Has this ever happened to anyone else?


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    Default Re: Girl didn't qualify herself at all

    She doesn't find you attractive. That's the simple answer.

    There is so many factors to why she didn't qualify herself dude.

    Maybe you were trying to qualify something weird. Maybe the way you worded it sucked.

    You negged her, don't do that it's stupid unless the girl is a PERFECT 10 and she knows it. By negging her you already think she has more value than you, which is counter productive.
    "Is there more to you than a pretty face"
    That sucked. You should of either built more attraction or rapport with her before
    Dropping a line like that. Your voice tonality will either make or break you saying that.
    If you say it in a mean way, she'll be offended as hell. If you say it flirty and with a fun vibe, it'll work.
    OR

    She could be very shy and just won't open up to a guy at the club which would mean you should build more comfort and fast in a club setting.. Conversations are dynamic and change quickly. One second you need to be building attraction, the next second you might néed to build some comfort with her. With practice, you'll be able to spot this very quickly and adapt.

    More than likely though, she just doesn't find you attractive. I would need more into or a sample conversation to give you a definite answer.

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    Default Re: Girl didn't qualify herself at all

    You got to keep talking to her building rapport and comfort. From what I can tell you we're basically talking about yourself and not trying to get to know her. If you want to talk to a girl you need to let HER talk most of the time.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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