Listening to Coach Corey Wayne again last night man that guy is incredible. So funny listening to his emails of guys over-pursuing and it always having the same effect. They lose. Now before I could never take this approach but I am now.
QUALIFY THE TARGET
About me which most of you know. I sarge massively in the Summer due to the vast abundance of females out. So I decided to do online in my off time. Now POF is a ghost town of hotties and Tinder is a bust cuz did 20 hot chick likes and no matches. But I got a 3 girl rotation going on FB. My old Oneitis is there and she is the least of my concerns right now. My biggest of course excitement is Summer Sarging. So Coach Corey Wayne talks about how guys always over-pursue and the girls always push them away. I came under some pressure on here for wanting to go 3 Days NC and while I may not do that I still may do 2 Days NC. The reason for this is cuz bombarding chicks with a bunch of messages is needy and more often than not I will message less and wait more. This helps me qualify the target better. Mainly because the more you contact them the more you build up this image of unspoiled perfection in your head. When you give more breaks it gives you more space to not be so consumed therefore contracting the ever unwanted Oneitis condition.
I call, text, or write a girl online. What is the normal reaction out of most women? They say nothing and give no replies but there are exceptions if her interest levels are very high then a quick reply is a usually flaming interaction about to go south or a girl really ready to take the plunge. But most hot women you got nothing usually for the first 24 hours. Why do most targets do this? Mostly ASD. Because of ASD most women will not leap into action at your message but I have caught them on FB and POF checking my messages like they were hooked on crack even though I still don't get a reply right away. So like I said the sarging is coming this Summer but practicing my skills online though it is mostly short lived due to the vast minority of available 9's and 10's online. The scale is tipped more to sarging in finding tons of hotties in a short time and Summer accelerates this factor ten fold.
WHY YOU QUALIFY
Most guys don't qualify they just throw themselves wholeheartedly at the girl. Bad move. Never give your heart out to anyone even in Marriage cuz wives cheat, divorces occur, and disagreements happen. If you give your heart out you have a super hard time with break ups and may never recover from a divorce situation. You don't qualify to reject the girl pre-maturely you just use this tool to find out what she is like and what kind of compatibility you two have. Chemistry is the rue of the day not feeling the need to have someone's approval. If you are desperate you will settle for the first hottie you see all the while being possibly unable to recover from that relationship.
At one time yes I fell in love at first sight with every girlfriend I had and wanted marriage. But now? Meh now I just wanna Sarge man, get good at my Inner Game, get validation, and work on myself. I am too consumed with my own life to give a flying fark if Girl A or B wants to marry me. Now in Coach Corey Wayne's sessions he always talks about guys sending way too many messages which turns the girl off. So just so you guys know I will contact less which keeps me at a distance and strong. For instance I got a 10 on FB I have been talking to. Takes her about a day to get back to me but I follow the Coach's advice and let her do most of the pursuing.
HOW TO PURSUE
So I got these 3 girls on FB like I said. But this one 10 has already replied twice so I just got her on NC for 2 days for her to get back to me. I could never pull this off before of getting replies. Usually I would send stuff for weeks or months before finally giving up after hearing nothing. I would usually freak out once I sent them that first message and sometimes message them 3-4 times a day with no answer. This is exactly what the Coach says NOT to do. So I send one message and give NC for 3 days the general rule but not end all be all. Trying that out for now. But when I do that by not sending message after message I got this mini-convo with that 10 going. Will try contacting the other 10 here soon as well.
To pursue you must not over-message the girl. In fact I just message at my convenience when I get around to it, even if it takes 7 hours. My last message from the 10 was right before 9am yesterday morning. I didn't notice it till like 11am then got to it at around 5pm and then put her on NC to hear back. But the way I used to do it I would reply right away, get no reply so reply again and again till facing a brutal rejection. You get the picture, it's just never pretty when you go AFC. I will also deploy to a certain extent this method for my texting as well as I used to jump into break, run to my car just to text some girl all spazzing out. Now I spaz out and get all fired up when I get a message then just sit on it for a while. Then when we reach the comfort stage I can start the rapid fire replies as I will be ready to take it all in. But in the early going I am just going to sit on it for a while because what you say in The Game is very important. Not to mince words but you really can't piecemeal chicks into dating you. That is you can't sit there and bombard them with messages in hopes of getting them. Especially I noticed when I started texting a girl 6-7 times with no reply I would start to get really insecure and very desperate for her validation. This is why you can't over-pursue and why you must qualify.