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    Default T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    I've been keeping track of my success ratio with Online Game (on sites like Match, POF & OKC) as well as when I game in Real Life.

    Now I'll admit that my online profile is BadAss! (Some of you have seen it)
    It's fine-tuned to a science in order to get results... and it does. I literally get hundreds of messages each month by doing nothing other than checking my inbox.

    I also get lots of replies when I initiate contact... But I send a LOT of messages. It really becomes a numbers game online; but it's definitely lucrative!

    Now, when I compare that to my "Real Life" game, the numbers themselves are definitely a LOT less. (After all, I already did the work with my online profiles, so now it's all residual effect... they just keep producing results while I do nothing)

    BUT...
    If I compare the percentage of successful "approaches" between my online initial messages, and when I roll up on a girl when I'm out?

    Real life is more successful. At least as far as getting positive responses & early interactions.

    Online is probably 65%-75% success.
    Real life is about 95%... even though the numbers are lower.

    But... when I combine the two (my online connections that turn into real encounters) it's 100%.

    All of this basically tells me that my "game" is more effective in real life, because I can incorporate more techniques. (Real smiles, and real touching, the whole vibe of feeding of each other's energy..etc.)

    As much as I promote online game (because it works & is soooo easy) There's still no comparison to going out & making that personal connection!!

    My problem now is, I'm in a small town in southern Michigan; whereas I WAS in Nashville TN, where hot girls are EVERYWHERE! (What a situation to be in!) lol!

    That's not stopping me though.
    And just because YOU may be in a small town, that shouldn't stop YOU from going out & meeting people. I don't care how lame a city is, there are STILL beautiful, single women within a 20-30 minute drive (if not closer) who are hoping to meet a guy who knows what he's doing.... And that guy is YOU!

    Practice flirting with EVERYONE. Practice GAMING everyone... even people you're not interested in... even friends & family members.
    Learn to be quick witted & interesting & magnetic.

    Do that, and you'll blow your own mind with the increase in success you have.




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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    I forgot to mention body language, eye contact & vocal tonality / inflection are a HUGE benefits of real life too.

    They can't be expressed in online game.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Online has become a lot of fun. I have awesome success with it and I've met cool people. What gets me is when you send that one hot smokin chick a message and she doesn't respond, or you see that she deleted it. Just knowing that if it were in real life, it would have been game set and match, it can be awfully frustrating. It's an awesome tool for when you can't go out for whatever reason, but there's nothing like real life if you are good with women

    Good post T-Mal!

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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Great post, to be honest. I am struggling online. Big time. I really need to crack the profile code, I am just not much of a writer. I can see the advantages of online,but I agree with you in person is much more effective for me.

    You should make a topic on how to create a kick ass scientifically proven profile lol

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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post

    You should make a topic on how to create a kick ass scientifically proven profile lol
    Actually, I wrote an eBook called "The 3 most successful online dating profiles ever!!!"

    You can find it on Amazon.

    I break down that exact topic & give the 3 exact profiles I've had the most success with.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Lol thAts so awesome. For a moment I thought you were kidding with me lol

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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Hahaha!
    Nope... definitely not kidding.

    That eBook is like a chef's secret recipe.


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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    I've seen T-Mal's profile, he's seen mine. Honestly his profile does most of the work all on it's own lol. It's ridiculously fine tuned, whereas I just rely on my boyish good looks

    Hahaha.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    I'm reaching the point where I'm gonna have to start using the "Clooney Factor"...

    Covering my grey hair is getting to be a more frequent job.
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    Default Re: T-Mal's game comparison: Online vs. Real Life

    Here's a quick update to share a message I just got:

    She wrote:
    I love your profile I'm still laughing, and nothing is better than laughter. Your able to spell AND you're grammatically correct...the whole package. So where have you been all my life??


    This isn't a girl I'm really interested in, but I'm going to reply back just to keep my chops sharp & experiment with new ideas.
    (Something I recommend everyone does, in order to improve their own social dynamics & communication skills.)




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