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    Default Need help approaching with Gym target

    Here we go again. Now as you all know I am a firm believer in the power of sarging (ie talking to lots of women in short spurts to build momentum and confidence) but not random one-offs such as the Gym or Online stuff (my FB targets are all ruined at this point). So either way my parents did really good with making me.

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    On the bike doing some cardio moved one away from this girl on purpose. Ignored her until...I see out of the corner of my eye her head locked onto me just star gazing at me like I was fascinating to her. I saw this got annoyed (she wouldn't stop) and looked over to make her stop staring (granted I am working out for female attention and should have capitalized on the frame by flexing or stretching). I get up early on purpose and walk right in front of her and she and her friend start giggling (ioi) and making eye contact but avoiding my strong eye contact.

    Saw her across the room and she still was looking at me. As I left I tried to make eye contact with her again but again she dodged the bullet. So I am getting IOI's and IOD's like the female zebra can't make up her dang mind about me. She is not a magazine workout chick but a total 9. Perfect ass, great bod, and a real cutie. I say she is a 9 cuz my last GF was an 8 but had wide hips and this chick has a great form no wide hips at all to complain about. I don't know why all these hot women keep checking me out. Just last week a fine chick who was at a restaurant in work out gear threw me a dirty look (lust) and went strait to Starbucks (who the fark does that?) The Starbucks chick was inviting the approach and I did nothing cuz I wasn't attracted to her so it makes me wonder why this Gym target didn't be more approachable. I didn't approach the Gym target due to the nature of hot women tending to blow out guys (especially me) very quickly. It is rare if a chick will entertain you for very long this is why I am in no rush to be hitting on all the women I see around town (but again when I sarge I don't hold back) so I was thinking of approaching her with caution and need any advice at all though I am not a big believer in Gym pick up since my last approach was a cold fish but it was my fault since I opened her up wrong. So any help would be great since this will help me get over the rotten luck I just had with FB. Any ideas? I will approach but I want to do it right this time. Also I am afraid I already screwed up and may have lowered my value by getting annoyed with her and due to the law of state transfer well maybe that explains those IOD's. This shows why open body language is so important since I was kind of sending the wrong signals there.
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    Default Re: Need help approaching with Gym target

    It doesn't matter where you are or what heppened to you before. Just talk to her. Don't over think.

    In a gym context you can just be friendly at first to avoid being brushed off. Say hi, have some small talk, say nice to meet you, gotta go, see you next time. You're just a fun guy who likes meeting people. Next time you're at the gym she won't be able to avoid you. You can keep it somewhat casual to begin with. Judging how she looks at you pales into comparison with a good conversation.

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    Default Re: Need help approaching with Gym target

    Good ideas man. It's like I really don't like Gym pick up for this reason. At my Gym it is mostly guys (don't want to switch my routine and pay more just to find girls) and occasionally a hottie will stroll in but it is uncommon. I will try if I see her again however these girls at Gyms, Stores, Work are very inconsistent so not crossing my fingers on this one. But this is great for the next one that stops by. I just may not open them on the spot the first time they are there cuz it feels too incongruent. But 2-3 times I might make a move so as to not pressure myself.

    This is mainly cuz you may see them again. I would rather hold onto that than be opening a hottie every time she strolls as that might give me a bad rep and get me in trouble with the staff. But if this same girl was at a Bar I would have made a move in a instant. It's just you can't approach all avenues the same and I have approached them on the spot before but it usually really makes me look desperate. Guess I will have to go for the N-close next time I see her cuz there is no point in talking to a woman unless you got your game on.
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