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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    LOL this is awesome.

    So you have a naked girl in bed, you just fucked her, and your first thought is to create an account in a PUA forum to enlighten us with the idea the Pick up doesn't work? Really?

    I love how you are even using PUA principles on this forum, creating a false time constraint by saying you will not be posting after tonight. NICE.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    I like that he has "pictures" too.

    I'm SURE the "girls" would totally appreciate & be thrilled, about him sending those to random people... what a great guy he is!

    (Although, the girls on the internet that he Google Image Searched to find & download these so-called "pictures" probably wouldn't mind anyway.)

    hahaha


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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    I'm just glad he came to save us. Don't know what we would have done without him, really.

    Just another sad story of someone who really knows nothing about "pickup", and thinks it's some kind of magic trick that we learned from a David Copperfield book and practice in our spare time. I can "pick up" a girl just by walking up, asking her what her name is, telling her mine, conversing like a confident person, showing her I'm not full of shit, and acting like a farking man. Takes about 5 minutes. That's what "pick up" is to me, and to most people in this community.

    All you're doing is shitting on the little guy. Not everyone is born with confidence. Some people have issues with social awkwardness, self confidence, depression etc. Not every guy has zero trouble going up to a girl and creating a situation that results in her feeling attracted to him. Just the thought of that makes a lot of guys squirm.. I still suffer from aa quite frequently. You're really gonna sit here and shit on the guys who are just trying to better themselves for the sake of meeting a good woman? Or having a girlfriend? Or just being able to talk to and meet women in general? Those canned routines and techniques are for them, to get the ball rolling and build some confidence.. Wake up.

    I think it's a safe bet to say the majority of regulars on this forum would never post pics of their girls on a forum, or draw on them (wtf?) to prove something to a community of people that they despise. You don't belong here at all.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Quote Originally Posted by legitscumbag View Post

    I have already been banned by RSD nation
    A favorite quote of mine.

    "I guess everyone needs a hobby"

    Koodo's to whoever can recognize that

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Booo this man!!!!!!!! ........30characters

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Honestly, I feel like the principles of PUA is a set of "guidelines," or tool one chooses to implement in their social game. I believe your assertion is correct in saying that blindly following the PUA lifestyle is not an end-all be-all to getting laid and being the best person that you can be. The PUA lifestyle one wishes to adapt is a journey of experiences along the way with the goal being socially adept in any situation. It is not, however, a cookie-cutter solution of cheesy pickup lines one uses to get numbers and f-close women in any given situation. I personally believe that there are two types of members of any given PUA community. The ones who blindly follow Bro Science steps for Pick-up, and the ones who are able to take existing shared knowledge and implement this extended-utility into their game, and in turn share useful knowledge and dialog with the community. Even as a new member myself, I can see the truth in what you are saying. You clearly are grounded in reality; we respect that. OR better said you have come to the end of your journey and have found within yourself the power to choose your mate/who you socialize with freely. Congratulations.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Please, this is very depressing. I am an handsome man, but have no luck with the women. Did PUA really work for someone? I keep on trying but nothing happens

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Quote Originally Posted by rogerpaul1234 View Post
    Please, this is very depressing. I am an handsome man, but have no luck with the women. Did PUA really work for someone? I keep on trying but nothing happens
    Let me tell you something right now. I've been told by many girls that I'm good looking. But before I learned pickup, I couldn't talk to a single one of them. I've even by hit on by girls who wanted to bang and I immediately chickened out.

    Pickup isn't something you just pick up (lol). You don't see results until a couple months of continuous practice, and you don't get really good until after over a year of a lot of practice. This obviously fluctuates depending on how quick of a learner you are (I happen to be a quick learner).

    To be able to love and take care of a woman, you need to be able to love and take care of yourself. So my advice would to be make little changes here and there and do them for a month (to establish a habit). Then make more changes and do them for another month. Could be eating organically, going to the gym, approaching a girl and complimenting them without asking them out every day for month. Little things that change you from the inside-out. And seek professional advice on picking up women. Dating coaches, perhaps attend a bootcamp, or post more often here to ask for help.

    I can tell you personally it has changed my life. Not because I'm not alone anymore or can get sex (currently single actually), but because I'm more confident, feel better about myself, and have gained so much knowledge about the world and myself

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Please, those are the same words girls say.
    I live in a shared apt with three players. Every night I feel like I am not a man. Now a girl I was chasing for a couple of months was snagged by my roommate. It makes me extremely depressed. I need to know a way to fix this.
    I know about inner game etc, my question is simple. Has PUA helped you to pick up multiple girls and go to bed with them? If so, which method.
    Right now, I need some assurance that I am not doomed to be like this. Every girl I have ever been interested in has LJBFed me.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    What words exactly do girls also say?

    No method. There is no magic pill, no easy line, no quick way out. There is either do or do not. You want to know my method? I changed and became a better version of myself. There is no trying to make a chode personality work. You have to change, become the best version of yourself.

    I'll tell you why you aren't getting girls. You're sad and don't feel like a man. You think girls want to prop up your sad energy when they got their own problems? They want a man, and know when a guy doesn't feel like one.

    Stop feeling sorry for yourself, that's your first step to being a man. I went through a lot of depression. Believe me. It's easy to sit there and be sad because that way you justify that you're a victim, that you're in the wrong. It's hard to admit that you have the choice not to be like that.

    If you have 3 players living with you, why not use them? Get advice, have them wing, you obviously have resources at your disposal.

    PUA has helped me get girls and get laid, but that's not the point. I felt like you once, doomed to be single. One day it just clicked. I thought there was no way girls were just cruel and prefered fake arsehole players. I considered the option that perhaps it was me, and I fixed it, and now I'm better for it.

    I will offer 3 things that you should do if you are serious about changing your life. Ready?

    1) Purchase The Fearless Code by David Wygant. It's a beginner ebook and one of the first ones I bought.
    2) Purchase Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Also a beginner ebook, both are cheap.
    3) Go to the gym, eat heathlier and more organic food, and if necessary stop beating off for at least a month, longer if you can. Your mental state controls your body language, but the reverse is true as well. Improve your body and your mind will follow.

    As a bonus, look up Elliott Hulse on youtube. He is a strength coach and will teach you how the body and mind work together and how you can change your energy.


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