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    Default The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Hello all.

    I am a guy who has been studying/practicing "pickup" for quite some time.I don't do it anymore though.I get laid alot more after dropping it too (like as in actually having sex,not getting laughs and phone numbers that go nowhere).There is a girl laying in my bed right now naked as I am typing this in fact.

    I came here to share some hard earned knowledge that will save you alot of needless suffering.

    That knowledge is the realization that pick up is a bunch of crap and it doesn't actually work.

    I could say a tremendous amount about this but for the sake of making it very clear and easy to understand (unlike the PUA'S) I am going to skip the details.

    Why doesn't pickup work?

    It seems pretty great at first...especially for a guy with little experience with women.Get any girl.Have tons of sex.Never again have to be anything but a totally confident guy who gets laid all the time...a super hero...

    Wrong.

    Pickup doesn't work because it's all about creating attraction

    Which is impossible.

    You can't "create" attraction.It isn't what witty things you say to her...she is already attracted to you physically from the get go or she isn't.At that point just don't screw it up and you're in.If she isn't then you are not going to be able to win her over with your "game".

    Think about it in reverse.Do you care how cool a girl is or what she says if she is 350lbs,ugly as hell,and the thought of kissing her makes you want to puke?I didn't think so.

    It's so obvious it's astounding.

    Sure,if a girl is hot and cool that is even better.But all that guys care about first and foremost is,is she hot?Her being cool only comes into play if she is already physically attractive to the guy.

    Well it is the same thing for girls.Who would have thought.

    PUA is a fantasy that you can control women with simple techniques and routines.Do you really think human beings are as simple as opinion openers?

    Looks matter.And certain guys may be repulsive to one girl and super attractive to another and vice versa.

    As far as your "game" all that is really required is the ability to converse like a normal human being,not being a complete nervous wreck,and the ability to make a move.No super hero skills necessary.

    Getting girls is as simple as this in a nutshell-

    Find the ones that are into you.Make a move on them.Ignore the rest.

    Case closed.

    Time to close all the workshops...

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Wow, so this is your first post on the board here to say this? Why go through all the time to register only to say, PUA "doesn't" work. Normally I would have a little respect to someone who has been active on this board for a long time, but for you, I don't have any. Look, being a PUA is not all about picking up girls and getting a lay. It's about improving yourself. The rest of it is just extras. So enjoy your very short time on here.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Damn right it is.

    Because maybe it will help someone who's been sucked into the nonsense that is PUA.If just one guy woke up then it'd be worth a few posts for sure.

    You don't need to respect me.

    Guess that the PUA's shifted the focus from getting laid to improving yourself.Probably since most PUA's couldn't get laid in a whore house.Don't want the natives to get too restless when they can't get laid with your advice.Oh I know lets just tell them that the point is self improvement instead.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Look! When a woman exposes part of her body that one finds a turn on attraction may spike through the roof.she can then leverage this normal function by intentionally exposing this part.this will on purpose reinstigate that feeling if its really a turn on for the other.most times not on purpose(girl).even falling in love may come from the way they do x or something about them,etc.
    That said interest may be created on purpose or unconsciously reaptedly till one perceives it to be off.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Dammit Hard Rock I never know what the fuck you're talking about hahaha

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    That's awesome!
    I'm glad a guy can "get laid" without using "pickup".

    You've got it all figured out bro. My utmost respect goes out to you.

    There will always be douchebags... whether you personally incorporate using psychology on a conscious level or not, doesn't change a thing.



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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Woah man..
    Attraction may be created consciously or unconsciously.both women and men do this somewhat whether they intend to or not.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    ah, I like this post because it points out something important, you can't have every girl. the easiest girls to game are the ones who are attracted to you at first sight. however, you can get girl's to "warm up" to you using you're personality.

    I believe that game is about looking your best, feeling your best, and having the confidence to go after the girls you want.

    as I preach to all, social confidence comes from social experience. pua helps guys to get some of that valuable experience they need in order to be able to have pleasant interactions with the woman they want.

    attraction can be gained through other means than just looks. if looks where everything, then why do ugly rich people still score hotties? the answer is simple, woman are not only attracted to looks, but also to men who can give them survival value.

    simply put, looks give you replication value, game and means give you survival value.
    woman want both.

    I'm glad to hear that you have become a natural, as that is what every pua should aspire to be.

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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    There is a natural physiological & psychological process that takes place during the stages of attraction.

    Whether you know how it's done or not, the fact remains the same... it's there.

    Guys who strive to improve their social & attraction skills, are no worse than guys who go to the gym & work out to build their physical skills.

    So, I hope your next visit to a forum website, is one about nutrition & body building so you don't discriminate.
    Go let them know how awful they are for getting in shape... and for being so narcissistic & egocentric.

    And while you're at it, tell the vegans to quit trying to sell me on soy & tofu! They can eat it if they want, but I'm an omnivore.



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    Default Re: The pickup delusion.Open your eyes

    Although I like your thoughts on the subject, looks mean almost nothing to women. Yes, if your attractive, you can get your foot in the door a little easier. Women are attracted to men who are confident, caring, and strong.

    If it was all about looks, then why do you see ugly guys with hot girls? Why does David X get so many women? He's fat and ugly. For men looks are the most important thing. For women it's more about how you ACT than how you LOOK.


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