I am a guy who has been studying/practicing "pickup" for quite some time.I don't do it anymore though.I get laid alot more after dropping it too (like as in actually having sex,not getting laughs and phone numbers that go nowhere).There is a girl laying in my bed right now naked as I am typing this in fact.
I came here to share some hard earned knowledge that will save you alot of needless suffering.
That knowledge is the realization that pick up is a bunch of crap and it doesn't actually work.
I could say a tremendous amount about this but for the sake of making it very clear and easy to understand (unlike the PUA'S) I am going to skip the details.
Why doesn't pickup work?
It seems pretty great at first...especially for a guy with little experience with women.Get any girl.Have tons of sex.Never again have to be anything but a totally confident guy who gets laid all the time...a super hero...
Pickup doesn't work because it's all about creating attraction
Which is impossible.
You can't "create" attraction.It isn't what witty things you say to her...she is already attracted to you physically from the get go or she isn't.At that point just don't screw it up and you're in.If she isn't then you are not going to be able to win her over with your "game".
Think about it in reverse.Do you care how cool a girl is or what she says if she is 350lbs,ugly as hell,and the thought of kissing her makes you want to puke?I didn't think so.
It's so obvious it's astounding.
Sure,if a girl is hot and cool that is even better.But all that guys care about first and foremost is,is she hot?Her being cool only comes into play if she is already physically attractive to the guy.
Well it is the same thing for girls.Who would have thought.
PUA is a fantasy that you can control women with simple techniques and routines.Do you really think human beings are as simple as opinion openers?
Looks matter.And certain guys may be repulsive to one girl and super attractive to another and vice versa.
As far as your "game" all that is really required is the ability to converse like a normal human being,not being a complete nervous wreck,and the ability to make a move.No super hero skills necessary.
Getting girls is as simple as this in a nutshell-
Find the ones that are into you.Make a move on them.Ignore the rest.
Time to close all the workshops...