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    invertednz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default From date to no date

    Hi all,

    Thanks for looking at this. Met a cute blonde about 4 weeks ago. We got on really well and we were going to meet up the next day. The next day she texts me saying it isn't a good idea she has a bf. I say that's fine lets still be friends and hang out (was actually the plan I quite like having friends who are girls).

    We flirt back and forth. At one stage she is texting me 10-15 times a day with her instantly replying when I text back. I sort of give up after a couple of weeks. Then I get a text after a week of no contact and guess she has broken up with bf (of over 2 hears it turns out). We agree to meet in town on the Friday.

    Friday is all good hook up nearly take her home only for a friend to tell her to go back to hers instead. She texts me in the taxi for us to see each other on Sunday. She ends up having to fly down to another city though so cancels the next day. On wednesday I text her and she has just arrived back up. I was heading out and she says she might meet me later if I stay in. I say convince me she tries indicating hooking up. I end up bailing that night as I meet another girl who I take home, I text her something funny and say next time. We agree to meet on Sunday again.

    Saturday roles around and she sends me a long text saying:

    So I've been thinking and Im not sure pizza and a drink is such a good idea. You seem really cool and I love pizza lol, but it seems really date-like and I only broke up with my bf a few weeks ago so don't realy wanna start dating again just yet. Sorry

    I send back, haha you'll never find out what I actually do then! (inside joke) We are actually having a bbq tomorrow why don't you come along.

    She sends back lol maybe I'll see how hungover I am. (she had a wedding on the Sat which actually one of my friends went to and everyone got smashed)

    What should I do?

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    r0cky is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: From date to no date

    Looks like the damage has been done, the story doesnt give enough details to find what it is. If she cancels on the bbq then send her something like
    "Thats ok make it up to me x day, we'll go to the movies and have a fancy dinner. jk. We'll go out for a cup of coffee"

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    invertednz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: From date to no date

    That's pretty much the full details, I can post out the texts but they are just flirting and getting good instant responses. damn just went through my texts and forgot I sent her a genetic Valentines day text.

    Every girl should get a text from an amazing guy on Valentines day, here's yours. Happy Valentines :-P

    She replied saying lol thanks! Happy Valentines day to you too .

    I had totally forgotten that I wasn't sure whether to send Valentines day messages or not. Ended up sending that to some girls who I thought would want a text.

    The bbq was Sunday and she didn't come.

    Thoughts?

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    r0cky is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: From date to no date

    You're coming off as a sweet nice guy even though she did nothing to deserve this. She cancelled on a date and you're condoning this behavior by texting her nice things. Dont reach out to her for a couple of weeks. That way she can forget a little why she lost interest.


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